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sungoddess
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Bi-curious Female, 54
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sungoddess
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Dear all, I have been on the scene on and off 6 years now and have met many wonderful people. I had great fun fulfilling my fantasies as well as fulfilling others. I have been taking a break during the last while to recharge my batteries and to get over hurt due to the occasional drama on the scene. You also meet some inconsiderate and uncaring people here too unfortunately. However, due to recent tragedy.. ie., lost my mum and my job unexpectedly the same week in March, I'm extending the break indefinitely as my priorities have changed. In times like this I realised even more that I deserve a bit of loving, pampering and support. It's something that I don't properly get from nsa sex and swinging. Swinging and a love life don't mix unless you are already part of a loving couple that swings. I will still keep in touch with those I made friends with & will check the forums occasionally. If there's a M&G, I may go in a social capacity. Enjoy the site darlings... there's some great people and lovers here! Just stay away from the drama. Bye for now... wave Sunny kiss
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Alan, it's a great idea.. thanks for thinking it. Maybe a non runner but great idea nevertheless. Hugs... Sunny xx
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Mods are here for the same reasons as we are.. having fun ;) They just go the extra mile for the site and only on the site smile I've met some lovely mods in my time and would prefer if they just let themselves go and enjoy M&G's and parties, rather than being on 'duty' at them. Sunny xx
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I do unconsciously abide to those rules when I was a newbie many moons ago when I still met couples for 3sums. For me, the play is always just softplay / foreplay, wanting to ensure that the female of the couple does not get jealous or intimidated. Fear that it may affect her self confidence. I made sure that the guy cum with his partner in the end. Whilst it was good and I enjoyed it, after awhile I decided that a 3sum with a couple is no longer for me as I feel like a facilitator, a warmer upper, an apperatif and it no longer does anything more me. Whilst I'm bi, some penetrative sex is important.
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I always meet up for a drink first in a pub whether it's for a date or for a swing meet. If the spark isn't there, I say it straight out. I expect the guy to do the same if he's not into me. No point in wasting his time or mine in sympathy shags. I don't shag anyone who I don't connect with, plain & simple. Now.. if the spark's there, well.. either I bring him home or arrange another more convenient time. Sunny xx
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Try Miss Fantasia in town. The street behind Powerscourt Centre. Same street as Dakota & Spy. Sorry forgot the street name. Good luck smile Sunny. xx
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Happy Birthday Busty! Have loads of fun on your birthday weekend! :cheers: passionkiss :happy: :happy:
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Happy Birthday Titan! Hope you have a greet weekend celebrating it Honey! :happy: :happy: passionkiss :cheers: Sunny xx
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I write a very detailed profile, but some people don't seem to read it gauging from the emails I get. Still... I prefer to write a detailed one as it'll give people who do read profiles an idea of what I'm like and what I'm looking for. I used to have more pics up, but had to take most down as they seem to be a magnet for picture collectors.. Sunny xx
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Gitzer, to compress pictures to a manageable size, do the following: Right click on the pic, select Open With, then Microsoft Office Picture Manager Select the word Picture in the Menu Bar, then Compress Pictures Compress Pictures settings Pane will open up on the right with 4 radio buttons. The estimated total size will change depending which one you choose. Click on OK button. To finish, select File then Save. Upload the compressed picture to complete. Regards, Sunny
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Thanks girls. Thing is though, when people book a room / apartment, there is no written contract of your do's and don'ts. The only thing mentioned is if there is damage to the room and that's why some places take deposits. You verbally specify the number of people staying, the number of beds in the room, the number of nights and the cost including deposit if need be. That's the only verbal agreement I think. Have never been told not to have a party or visitors in the room. Thankfully it hasn't happened to me, but have heard of people who had issues with the hotel staff. Can the management ask guests to leave or ban us even though we're discreet, just because we are swingers?
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With regular play parties and Meet & Greets organised these days; hotel, pub and apartment rental staff are becoming more aware of swinging activities. I'm talking medium to big sized groups here. Not 3sums or 4sums. We can try to be discreet, but simple things give it away, At parties: A Noah's Arc scenario.. couples.. 2 by 2 entering a room. Music blaring, noise of 20 - 40 people chatting; room is a 2 or 3 bed apartment booked for 4 or 6 people. Hotel and some apartment corridors have cameras. At M&G's: Swingers dancing provocatively on the dancefloor, usually 2 bi women looking hot & horny.. Men don't dance much.. biggrin A group of people sexily dressed and seem to be open in each others company. People openly snogging another in front of his / her partner. Bi girls kissing each other. My question is.. what to do if they suspect? If they say anything or ask guests to leave? What are our rights in this regard? Can we invite people to our room as long as we ensure that the booked number of people are the only ones who stayed the night? Are we entitled to privacy as long as we are discreet and clean up afterwards? Sunny xx
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They're my choice Alan.. Raven has kindly provided pics of them for us to savour :P. Don't mind sharing with others tho.. biggrin
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Raven you are so good for posting the pics of those hot ladies! And of course it's Fergie from the Black Eyed Peas that I fancy... biggrin rotflmao
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In my experience, it's the occasional newbies and 'virgin' swingers that need gentle guidance to the washroom. Most swingers I've met are very hygenic and also get sexual health checks regularly. They won't get much action otherwise... biggrin
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Some people say bisexual people are just greedy. Not sure if that's true but I am lol I agree with Monica Belucci :lick: and.. Scarlett Johannson (did you see her in a recent ad campaign? Just sizzling..), Jessica Alba (Sin City), Dita Von Teese (best figure ever), Megan Fox, Eva Mendez, Beyonce, Fergie, Kylie, Carmen Electra, Kate Hudson Taylor Lautner, Zac Efron, Tom Welling (Smallville), Jude Law, Cillian Murphy (sat beside him in Wagamama on Sunday biggrin, gorgeous full lips), Daniel Radcliffe (ok.. I love Harry Potter.. :grin: ), Johnny Depp, Justin Timberlake, George Clooney, Matthew McConaughy, Owen Wilson, Will Young (I know... he's gay.. but still hot though!. Maybe I can watch him ;) instead) Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt together in a 3sum with me ;) Can go on all night with more names.. but got to go to sleep now. :lol:
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Personally, I love watching men with big gorgeous cocks enjoying themselves.. adore the 'money shot', wish there were more. Having said that, I love to watch women & couples & everyone enjoy themselves.. Wish all videos end with someone cumming ;) If I don't like a particular scene on the video gallery I just move on to the next. Easy as that.
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Love to go Honey, but won't know availability until nearer the time. Will email you in January. In the meantime... have a great Xrated Xmas and a Naughty New Year! Hope all your wishes & desires cums true ;) Sunny kiss
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Quote by user=marieandu4121
Is there anyway new joiners to the Site - and all repeat offenders - could be issued with a copy of this information as soon as possible - Education is the prevention of ignorance and I believe that's what's at the bottom of the issue.

Titan Honey, can you put a sticky on this thread for awhile please. It is worth for first timers and repeat offenders to read it.
Just because we're open minded, love sex and some (like me) enjoy the company of more than one person at sessions and parties; doesn't mean we deserve less respect than the other girls they meet in social venues outside the site. If anything, because of our open attitude to sexuality that makes us all sizzling hot.. they should treat us far better, whether in the chatroom or at meets.
Sunny kiss
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Quote by user=plantman
I am disappointed I did not go BUT after popping in and out of swing all day I am glad I didn't , some of these people just cant shut the fuck up about it , I mean there saying things that could just out peeps who want to keep it somewhat secret, I thought that these gatherings were somewhat private, not being a party pooper but when I do go to a gathering I will make sure that a certain few who were there last night are absent, so I can at least keep my anonimity somewhat private

Hi Girls, thanks for organising this fun M&G and I did avail of the opportunity to put faces to profile names, to say hello to old friends and make new ones. It was a great night seeing everyone dressed up and enjoying themselves. Thanks again girls kiss
About Plantmans post... well..Whilst some anonymity is needed outside the site, I am not ashamed of it either because I met my best friend and some other close friends from it. Life is too short to lead a real double life (scene & non scene) and occasionally I merge the two especially at birthdays etc. I only stay friends with respectful considerate open minded people whether they are from the scene or non swingers. I really can't see the problem when people chat and thank the organisers. It shows good manners and respect.
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That's great news.. thanks...:clap: Unfortunately there's no select all in a page option.. I have to delete them one by one and I've got 21 pages to go through rolleyes At least the hard work is done just this once smile Thanks kiss
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Think he enjoyed the Chilli dinner Titan Honey.. He wished he had some more biggrin
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Thanks for a great night girls. Great to meet you and Happy Birthday again! Sunny xx
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Well Honey.. you were fab for your first meet. You were a bit worse for wear at the end (like a lot there too) but I really didn't see anything wrong happening. Sometimes it's easier to say sorry even though it's unclear what we did, coz we can't please everyone all of the time. Just some people some of the time. I'll gladly accompany you to other meet & greets. Sunny xx
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Thanks for the kind words and encouragement everyone :thumbup: You're all great :kiss I found a bit of a solution actually... I seem to squirt less when I orgasm with a guy's cock (or dildo or vibe) inside me. Think it blocks the flow a bit. The pressure to push him out and squirt can be strong though. When I orgasm through finger play or oral, it just gushes.. lol... At least I can cut down on doing the laundry now biggrin
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