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Titan79
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
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...from the male perspective...lesson learned hard way...Forget her name when she comes onto you in whisper(and you been chatting back and forth for a bit) and your here going 'what the F**ks her name again'..while smiling and nodding......once again sorry..you know who ya are 
I've head like a sieve...but most that know me well know that :twisted:
I've head like a sieve...but most that know me well know that :twisted: Sex God
Quote by TheStig11
With all the budget cuts you have to wonder what the immediate future is for the US space program. The Space Shuttle is being retired and as of yet there seems to be no replacement being lined up as the replacement that was planned called Project Constellation was effectively cancelled by President Obama although some Senators in the US have tried to revive the project, it remains to be seen if it will come to pass. It will be a long time before they get to their stated aim of getting a manned mission to Mars underway, I wonder if I will see it in my lifetime?
I heard China are in the process of Planning a moon program.
Lickirishall...I honestly couldn't tell you I wouldn't be that avid a space travel fan. But in my experience they normally tend to follow the day time launches with night ones but entirely depends on the weather I will consult my space buff pal and get back to you on this thread.
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Not sure if many are interested but heres a link to the live launch of the last space shuttle mission I meant to post it earlier today its Due to take off in the next few minutes..yeah I know a bit late lol. EDIT
Well so much for the excitement, its been scrubbed for another 72 hours for some reason......oh well.
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I always attend parties with the outlook to having a good night out and a break from the norm pure and simple, if I get to play with some people in the process great, if not, sure feck it have a laugh anyway/ that said I haven't been shy about making my excuses and leaving if I was adamant the majority of attendee's weren't for me(in honesty would you stay in the company of anyone getting up your nose with no apparent effort in a pub/run of the mill social setting?)That's the great thing about free will and choice.
In some instances you might like to reciprocate the invite or expect to be invited to another if you make a good impression,this all depends on so many variables it would make you dizzy.
I've had the best nights with the most unlikely mix of people, and I mean that respectfully, and had the most atrocious nites with those I may have had some expectations(thats a nasty habit you soon learn to grow out of in the swing world) but its trial and error like a lot of things.
I've organized a few party's and never gotten a return invite, but I've never lost sleep over it, life's too short for me personally to get hung up on them sort of things. As I said at the start I go for the craic and if there's loads of it happening the laws of chemistry sort everything else out.
Swing when yer winning!
** That was a crap impression of a Banjo** Sex God
Quote by bonnyclyde
hi vanity I am sadden to see the mods that will go out of their way to help are gone and who put a lot of work in to make sure that the site was fair and that if u need some advice you could ask 2 mods in particular who have been on this site a lot longer then some who have manners and respect for themselves and others on site they were fair .
So the rest of The mod team are window dressing/don't meet the above criteria? ...and this isnt a mod bashing thread?
This is where I save my breath for cooling my soup.
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[b:5a324ac166]Catch 22[/b:5a324ac166]
[i:5a324ac166]1)A situation in which a desired outcome or solution is impossible to attain because of a set of inherently illogical rules or conditions.
2) A contradictory or self-defeating course of action.[/i:5a324ac166]
I normally don't comment on threads like this due to the above,if I do not to comment I could be seen as assuming I was above reproach and this topic didn't warrant my attention, or that expressing my personal opinion would be followed by comments along the line of 'Oh no your not the problem its someone else altogether/ 'ah yeah typical comment from a mod' etc, so I'm damned if I do or damned if I don't.
I feel strongly about the recent opinions that have been discussed before this post and I will honestly and frankly give my thoughts on the whole thing.
Being a member here firstly and a Mod secondly, I'm saddened to learn that some mods are viewed to be unapproachable, and even worse that we would black mark certain folks because of clashes of personalities or other personal reasons (though in most cases I imagine it is frustration and incomprehensibility that a mod might be so bold as to impose a particular site rule on individuals,possibly due to an assumed 'terms' with the same mod,) and in logical assumptions getting wrists slapped equates to being so called 'black marked'.
**that's where the Impartiality element of being a Mod comes into play, same rules for everyone!
Personally I can only comment on my motivations as a Mod and I've always acted in what I've felt is a fair and impartial manner, I like to think I have a good sense of fairness, and I'm always there to hear any ones side of a site related issue if they have approached me to date, if for any reasons I have made it known I cannot deal with the matter at the time, its generally because of good reason and I always make a point of following it up with the member when it warrants doing so.
I welcome anyone that thinks differently to my judgement and actions in my moderation to contact me directly or in preference contact admin(in fact the same protocol would apply to all mods), I'm only human after all, and like everyone else open to criticism in a fair and balanced light.
As for any breaches of trust some of you may have felt you had from a Mod regarding private site related matters I would suggest the same, this is after all a business and the customers have all they re rights clearly outlined in the sites AUP, and like every business, the propetiers primary interest is the satisfaction its customers get from the service they signed up for.
So the next time its assumed that our actions(mods)are personally motivated, and the star is used to garner some sort of pseudo Kudos, think about this,
I come on here to enjoy this site and all the fun and enjoyment it provides,true I don't be on as much of late as things have taken a certain turn in life with me, and I don't dedicate as much time to it as I may have had in the past, but when I am on, I'm here to help in my capacity as a moderator, where I can, and I do so as I love the swing lifestyle and want the other members of the site to equally enjoy they're experiences. (and not have to put up with the nonsense that I witness on other similar sites that have no moderation) but primarily I'm here to enjoy myself chatting and interacting with like minded people. just like everyone else.
Regarding the election system of mods at the moment, like every system of election some will find issue with it, and regardless of its method of decision, are not all forms of election through vote a popularity contest? which leads to an even tougher decision process when it comes time for the site owners on who to entrust with keeping the place balanced and smoothly ran, when making the final call on selecting those suitable.
No doubt there will be those that disagree with my opinion, and what I have just said, and your perfectly entitled to your opinion, but a like a wise old relative of mine used to say, Opinions are like A**holes, everybody's got one. For those that agree with me, there will be as many that don't.
When we get sidetracked by things like this, surely it takes the fun side of the site out of it for everyone?
Yours Respectfully,
Titan79
