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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 122
Straight Female, 122
0 km · Waterford
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Great thread Alan.... like sungodess I too used to be conscious of this when i first started meeting couples and it took from my enjoyment and agree with blondie that yes some couple do feel threatened by the singles but that is there issue and not mine.
Couples with any or all of the rules listed should make them clear to the single female or male from the begining so that the single is fully aware of the conditions of the meet if they choose to go ahead with it and not be left feeling as if he/she has done something wrong or scapegoated if things go wrong.
Cuckolding
"Cuckolding
A distinct threesome subculture is cuckolding. Cuckolding is a subgenre where open relationship and threesomes meet. In a cuckold experience, one partner has sex with another person outside of their primary relationship for a limited number of times and the person who engages in the experience generally shares that experience with their partner after the encounter has ended.
Generally cuckolding differs from an open relationship as it does not involve an ongoing emotional relationship that is commonly found in an open relationship. Though the non-participating partner is not involved in the sexual act, they may be involved in preparation and selection of the third person. Cuckolding is not always done for sexual humiliation as it may be done to allow sexual exploration, the opportunity to live out a fantasy, fulfill a desire, or sexual fulfillment that cannot usually be obtained through the normal boundaries of a relationship. In essence cuckolding seeks to 'fill the gap' that is left by other threesome or group sex activities."
Just wondering have any other singles noticed that some male partners seem to be cuckold husbands /partners. In that at a party the fem of couple will choose another male/female to play with, but the male of same couple does not interact or play with anyone else. Also when asked to meet by a couple for a 3some many just want fem on fem with no interaction from the male apart from watching.
I know each to his or her own and I am not condemning or being judgemental on anyone here, simply asking have others experienced this too?
If so what are your views on
1) where only one of a couple plays should this be made clear to hosts
and other guests before hand?
2) When couple make contact should they make this clear to others?
3) Do fems play solo to fulfil male�s girl on girl &/ see his partner
with another guy fantasy?
4) Do males not play to fulfil female bi �sexual &/ being with another
guy fantasy
"Cuckolding
A distinct threesome subculture is cuckolding. Cuckolding is a subgenre where open relationship and threesomes meet. In a cuckold experience, one partner has sex with another person outside of their primary relationship for a limited number of times and the person who engages in the experience generally shares that experience with their partner after the encounter has ended.
Generally cuckolding differs from an open relationship as it does not involve an ongoing emotional relationship that is commonly found in an open relationship. Though the non-participating partner is not involved in the sexual act, they may be involved in preparation and selection of the third person. Cuckolding is not always done for sexual humiliation as it may be done to allow sexual exploration, the opportunity to live out a fantasy, fulfill a desire, or sexual fulfillment that cannot usually be obtained through the normal boundaries of a relationship. In essence cuckolding seeks to 'fill the gap' that is left by other threesome or group sex activities."
Just wondering have any other singles noticed that some male partners seem to be cuckold husbands /partners. In that at a party the fem of couple will choose another male/female to play with, but the male of same couple does not interact or play with anyone else. Also when asked to meet by a couple for a 3some many just want fem on fem with no interaction from the male apart from watching.
I know each to his or her own and I am not condemning or being judgemental on anyone here, simply asking have others experienced this too?
If so what are your views on
1) where only one of a couple plays should this be made clear to hosts
and other guests before hand?
2) When couple make contact should they make this clear to others?
3) Do fems play solo to fulfil male�s girl on girl &/ see his partner
with another guy fantasy?
4) Do males not play to fulfil female bi �sexual &/ being with another
guy fantasy
off to find themRoses are crap,
Violets are wonky,
Oooh I've just come,
Pass me a hanky.
Roses are stupid,
Violets are silly,
Grease up your flaps,
Cos here comes my willy.
Roses are awful,
Violets are the pits,
Lift up your shirt,
And show us your tits.
Roses are crap,
Violets are shit,
Sit on my face,
And wiggle a bit.
Raven 
assionkiss:
:passionkiss: heres to the next milestone 5000 
:cheers:
:taz: don't go to meets with the expectation of sex, but do hope it would happen, after all this is a swing site and for me after chatting etc agreement to meet is based on an initial attraction in the virtual world so hopefully this attraction would exist in the real world and let nature take its course from there
