Cuckolding

31 Jan 2010

Cuckolding
"Cuckolding
A distinct threesome subculture is cuckolding. Cuckolding is a subgenre where open relationship and threesomes meet. In a cuckold experience, one partner has sex with another person outside of their primary relationship for a limited number of times and the person who engages in the experience generally shares that experience with their partner after the encounter has ended.
Generally cuckolding differs from an open relationship as it does not involve an ongoing emotional relationship that is commonly found in an open relationship. Though the non-participating partner is not involved in the sexual act, they may be involved in preparation and selection of the third person. Cuckolding is not always done for sexual humiliation as it may be done to allow sexual exploration, the opportunity to live out a fantasy, fulfill a desire, or sexual fulfillment that cannot usually be obtained through the normal boundaries of a relationship. In essence cuckolding seeks to 'fill the gap' that is left by other threesome or group sex activities."
Just wondering have any other singles noticed that some male partners seem to be cuckold husbands /partners. In that at a party the fem of couple will choose another male/female to play with, but the male of same couple does not interact or play with anyone else. Also when asked to meet by a couple for a 3some many just want fem on fem with no interaction from the male apart from watching.
I know each to his or her own and I am not condemning or being judgemental on anyone here, simply asking have others experienced this too?
If so what are your views on
1) where only one of a couple plays should this be made clear to hosts
and other guests before hand?
2) When couple make contact should they make this clear to others?
3) Do fems play solo to fulfil maleÃ¢ï¿½ï¿½s girl on girl &/ see his partner
with another guy fantasy?
4) Do males not play to fulfil female bi Ã¢ï¿½ï¿½sexual &/ being with another
guy fantasy

31 Jan 2010

Our veiw is if one partner can play so should the other. But each to their own. In regards to couple who do practise cuckolding we feel they should/must inform anyone who they wish to meet of this fact before hand, as not everyone would be comfortable with it.

31 Jan 2010

thanks for clearing up what cuckolding actually is cutie , i always thought it just referred to someone who enjoyed being forced to watch and not participate , i never knew there was so much more to it ...good informative post there :thumbup:

31 Jan 2010

Great Post and very informative Cutie, I have had past experience of this in the UK when I lived there and with the few couples I did meet with, there was a lot more to the dynamic of it than just the male partner being excluded from the fun. The stereotype of the cuckold, Bull scenario is often mis represented in the media, and the websites that preport to cater for people into this. The reality of the thing I have found is a deep down trust and understanding between couples that participate in this, and its just a way of them expressing they're particular lifestyle, interest's etc.