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Titan79
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
0 km · Offaly
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Sex God
Quote by user=midnightchat
Titan, definitely improving with age. Think that is in part down to the ease you find with yourself as you develop. Eventually you realise you are equally as responsible for getting yourself there as the other person is.
Oh thats very True Midnight, Its a 50 50 thing. I was going to add, but Virgo beat me to it, they definitely seem more drawn out and intense as well I notice.
naughtyelle, jaysus can I call over some evening and share in that experience, sounds like a great way to while an evening away.
Sex God
Robbie,
I have to say I have similar issue with cpls that have ticked off all the boxes for who they are meeting, and then have 'We don't meet single males' at the bottom.
I mean how hard is it to uncheck a box? The same people cry blue murder then if a guy makes an approach to them in the chat room.
I think all you need to do is give a decent description of you as a person, then state what your looking for.
Don't get me started on the regularly active 'will fill this later' accounts that are here since 2006 and 2007!!!!
Sex God
3 types of orgasm:
the positive orgasm – ‘oh yes, oh yes, OH YESSS!’
the negative orgasm – ‘oh no, oh no, OH NOOO!’
the spiritual orgasm – ‘oh god, ohh god, OH GODDD!’
the fake orgasm – ‘oh heff, oh heff, OH HEFFF!’
I've Noticed In the last few years My orgasms have gotten stronger. anyone else feel the same way?
I think it comes with experience and being less likely to be distracted in the middle of things lol.
Sex God
Well Said Midnight,
I think you've smacked it right on the head.
Personally speaking I used to always have a slight bit of anxiety on every first meet, through experience and using a set formula of talking in dept before hand, and not developing expectations of how a meet will go, has taken that anxiety out of the equation.
Lads, Don't ever presume because you have been chatting on here or by phone for x amount of weeks months etc you will automatically fall into each others arms and rock the Rafters til the small hours. People can find when they do meet that one party may not be as keen as the other. So best Advice I would give is, go On the basis your going to have an enjoyable night in a like minded persons company, have a drink and relax. If the sparks there in both people, things will work out as they are destined to.
*Pleasantly Surprising the Ladies of swing4ireland since 2008*
Sex God
when I see people park cars outside shops/petrol stations with the keys in ignition and engine running I want to take they're car, just to teach the eejits a lesson that its idiotic leaving them unattended and ripe for the taking.....havent quiet plucks up the bollix to do so yet, but one day I shall...** evil laugh**
Sex God
Quote by user=necpl
Hey Tom, Agree on most points, especially about people whacking off and it just being a fantasy, perhaps we need a new category on the site, people who have actually met or at least turned up as referenced by others
Interesting Post,
As regards to the above comment, there is a fairly good verification system on here and I would suggest that when talking to guys on here you go by that, Most that are genuine have been vouched for by being established and also this backed up by comments by those that have met them are a pretty good yardstick to go by.
As Single male, oh us that are beleaguered and often treated with a small bit of distain mostly due to the action's of the same jokers that necpl mention in theyre first post, I'd Like to suggest use the search facility, then tick off the boxes for single males with
tags
you will narrow the field down a bit at that stage but at least then you can be sure to a certain extent that the same guys do actually walk the walk and not just as the great Mr T would say 'Jibba jabba'
It is terribly frustrating for us few genuine single males on here that see the nonsense that some people have to put up with, but on the plus side I guess it leaves the field more open for us.
Don't Loose heart NEcple, there are a plenty of genuine lads on here, Just a matter of using a few site tools and intuition to sort the wheat from the 'chaff'.
Sex God
Quote by user=mgr
Hi all
I have been on this site for quite a time now
I have mailed quite a bit talked to some people
set up some dates with some ladys . But all of them never turn up
so I have to ask are u chicken ladys
I am 6ft2 big guy all my friends say I am fun
when I am out with a lady it's all about her ..
I love oral and will spend all night making a lady
happy in whatever way she likes
fue drinks nice dinner nice hotel ...
But still no takers from this site ...???
So ladys ....TELL ME WHAT TO DO ??
Martin
Well I aint a lady but I tell you what to do first, Loose the all encompassing and highly insulting opinion that because a woman won't meet you she is a chicken!!
Look at it this way, its a numbers Game, we outnumber the women by a huge Margin, so we need to make the effort, convey ourselves as best we can by email chat etc, ( though I have to say devil the meet I have had from emails alone)
You said you spoke to a few on here before yet the meets came to nothing, did you actually speak by phone? hear a voice etc? I know a lot that are very trusting and would hang on every text or email correspondence they receive, not the most sensible of methods, I always Insist on a phone chat inside a day or so of making contact, it sorts the messers out from the genuine folks, also a conversation can tell you enough in 10 Minutes that half a week of texting won't.
Don't be so dismissive of the site, and by no means be dismissive of the ladies on here, I have met a lot of 'Real' Fun Ladies from here and I can vouch that the site does work. But you really need to do the ground work, invest some of yourself into your conversation, approach etc. we all are here for fun, Not relationships, thats true, But just because the ladies on here have a more broader outlook on theyre sexuality it doesnt for a minute mean they are by any means quick to jump on the first cock that swings by the door, if anything they will be more choosy as there is a huge pool of males to draw from.
There is no 'quick hit' when it comes to swinging.
Sex God
Hi Hynes,
As a fellow single male I can understand where you are coming from. I found this place very cold and alienating from single males when I first joined, But the main thing is to have patience and try to get to know people. swinging is about trust and building a rapport with peoople before you ever hope to get a meet. unfortunately there are a few idiots that have the cop on of 12 year old Boys on here and they think that the couples and females are here for wank foder on cams, or that they will meet with a stranger at the drop of a hat. Take yer time and you'll find it far more fruitful,
Take my word for it.
Sex God
Quote by user=lovebird
well mine wasnt an email....but last night i was on cam....and i guy asked me would i help him in his garden!!i was waiting for the punchline but there wasnt one! was totally perplexed.
strange..even for s4i.
lovebird
xx
Maybe he wanted to get ya on a kneeling stool and to.........do his weeding........I'll come root you flowerbed hun...anytime
Sex God
Quote by user=midnightchat
I'm just going to copy and paste this one, so sorry for not toning it down first. I had no previous contact with this guy. The mail says............'suppose theres no chance of you giving me a hand job and il finger you and make u cum. merry xmas '
That piece of throbbing erotic literature was sent to me on Christmas Eve. Oh the shame, and baby Jesus only around the corner.....
I wouldnt normally condone the behaviour, But I hope ya did 'Break this ones heart'
Such mastery and such Imagination Midi, deserving of a mention alright that one.:O
