To Me sexual Intelligence is the ability to entice the opposite sex with your thoughts, how you 'carry' yourself and the ability to entice, tease and please. I've always been one that was more into reading erotic literature, more so than getting my jollies from the pictures on a porn Mag or watching a Film. I think its developed my sexual intelligence.
God forbid if I ever get reduced to monosyllabic comments at the sight of a naked woman in the chat rooms.
Do you have a similar point of view?, or do you just let the 'hairy monkey' Inside loose and hope for the best?
Your comments please.
Er Mr Doc still in tears of laughter with yer 'Cement stirring' references from other night lol, Er Rose Bud, lol
Seeya Folks, ya will be missed. Take care and best of luck.
Thanks folks for all the best wishes they are really appreciated.
Special Thanks to those that made it very special last night, you know who you are.
:doggy:Happy Birthday Busty, Have a great night hun
I Have to say I enjoy both as well, But more so indoors purely for comforts sake, though shagging on a bonnet of a car has a certain 'durtyness' about it :doggy:
Have a great Night everyone thats going. Unfortunately i can't make it.
.....you don't ever want to see me in a mankini.....I wouldnt be so cruel to humanity :O
** now where did I leave my 'Elephant thong'????**
The odd one or two was had during me younger days......
Lets see ya flick a jumbo beach towel........:laughabove:
oh sweet jebus photo, been there too, and fuck me it killed the mood for an hour or so. ** crosses legs**
I was recently Talking to a few people about most bizarre sexual experiences, and i they had ever had someone say or do something mid shag that caught them unawares.
Was with someone this one night, all going well and in the height of things she screams out 'Ohhh thats it Daddy do it harder'..I stalled and thought 'Jaysus!!!!' I'm an open minded guy, and I can appreciate the realms of sexual fantasy and role play, but it did catch me a bit off guard.
Has anyone ever said something to you in the heights of passion which knocked you for six...or seven?
How ya Meandwho,
Its a steep hill to climb mister but keep heart, I see you in the chat a bit lately and thats a good start, keep it light hearted and get to know people, and when folks get a feel for you you shouldnt have any problems I reckon.
Best of Luck.
Nope, I wouldnt did it a few times when younger and felt like a mug afterward. Prevention is better than cure. Like firestorm said go have a meet and see what happens, I dont ever assume I'll end up in bed with anyone I meet, be it first meet or the fifth.
I think the most important thing in my own experience is to just take it one step at a time, and see what your comfy with, and how much it turns you on. As Bongo said let no one coerce ya into anything that puts you outside the comfort zone, as you may end up ruling out something you'll regret in later years because the person you were with was pushy or gave you a bad experience.
e.g Crap First anal sex experiences anyone??? I know loads of women **and a few lads..;-)** that dismiss it because some 'oaf' forgot the 'normal lube requirement x10' rule of thumb and the fact you need to have the other person incredibly turned on.
I think Once people are paying for the membership here and they are abiding by the rules they are well within they're rights to not meet. My issue is though with the ones that seem to be serial time wasters, wind up merchants, and those that eel because they have paid a membership they can do or say what they like to others on here regardless of how offensive it may be with no repercussions.
A Lot of people have to be very comfortable with themselves and the whole scene on so many levels before they venture into going the whole hog. And Judging them on the fact they may be taking they're time to
'jump in' is not very fair.
...one word Midi...'McCains'........8)
Hi funandgames,
I love the old Bit of role-play myself and have to say it adds a great naughty element to fun, My Personal fave being the naughty student and teacher one...But the one Midnight mentions there is a good one as well,
Although Ones to avoid are:
1. Tv License Inspector and hapless non license holder.
2. Department of Ag Vet and Short sighted farmer....can get very messy.
3. Clumsy Ryan Air Hostess and Michael O'Leary...( No amount of cock sucking will ensure Mr O'Leary gives her the job back, but it has got added benefits from the males perspective
Any Ladies In the Northwest tonight for a hotel meet? well Sligo Town/City...(Wtf exactly is Sligo??? )to be specific.
No 'Battered sausage' purveyors required.
( I know these things never work, but seeing as so many lad's post them I see what the attraction is)
I was 25( I think..I wasnt really passing much notice)
Anna, Great Post,
I have to say fair dues to the guy for being honest enough to say it to you. I was in the 'Should I say I am bi or not' quandary for a while, too but then I reckoned fuck it, It dont mean I am a lesser person/manwhore/not picky/wreckless in my sexual activities, as some would think.
But sad to say some have the notions in they're head, they will never understand it, and will freely admit they don't want to understand it!!!( which is really worrying) I always reckon people fear most what they fail to understand.
