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Titan79
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
0 km · Offaly
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Sex God
We all have urges at the most inopportune times, Have you ever had the inkling and more so the opportunity to have a bit of fun whilst at work?
In My profession I do get the odd chance when staying away but I have to say theres something deliciously naughty about being 'on the job' while...erm 'On the job':devil:
Sex God
Like all addictions its only an addiction if causes you to not function correctly without the stimuli that the addiction apparently offers.
I am a horny fecker, Yes,
I do think of sex quite a lot, hell yes!!,
but does it affect my daily functioning as a person? No!
Do I find it Hard to start the day without sex? No!
Does it cause me to neglect other area's of my life in a constant search for that next 'Hit'? No!
Thats just my two o on the matter.
Sex God
My Dear Surfer, there are plenty for us genuine guys that do meet, its ust the cam wanking thrill seekers and other messers that make the task seem so menial. I've had the pleasure of some sexy Mature ladies from here, its all about your approach, and they also can pick out the messers from the genuine guys that will meet. If I had a fiver for all the occasions of lovely ladies from here being left high and dry by guys that failed to show up after arranging a meet I wouldn't have to work any more.
Lads as Marie said get some pics up, change yer attitude(Gagging for it???..me thinks your watching too much MILF porn) The ladies are up for fun, just a little it of patience and respect will see you right.
Sex God
Quote by user=alan-ball
Have you been lucky in your life to meet your true sexual match, a sexual soul-mate, be it guy, girl or couple?
Now by sexual match I don't mean your last great shag, I mean someone who both sexualy and mentaly blew your mind, and you did likewise..
Sometimes the hardest thing is to find someone that you are sexually compatiable with.
Sex isn't just about the act itself, it is talking, thinking, being able to allow each other to share fantasies , perhaps not always acting on them, but sharing without inhibition what is in your mind, because despite what a lot of people believe, your mind is the most powerful sexual tool a woman or man posesses.
And to be able to share that with another is mind-blowing.
the mind is a powerful tool....and when two people are reading off the same page that is truly amazing....both of their fantasies will be discussed and either made reality or not but the discussion itself can be such a turn on.....
when you find your true match(sexually....spiritually...physically...etc).....it blows the mind totally...and with care and imagination that is something that will last....
(these are extracts from a very old post, but I liked the idea 7 thought it was a subject deserved another outing)
Alan,
Sounds like your on about relationship sex there,
I have met one or two that 'clicked' on all sexual levels with me, but they were few and far between, I think when it comes to swinging, we detach ourselves a bit more from the emotional side, yes we experience emotions, But when your in the middle of a 'mass orgy' closeness and tenderness are last things on your mind.
Sex God
Quote by user=hotdogs
See there are two different scene's, the one that allow couples and only single girls and the one that is a mix of all,
Here on this site for us is to meet couples so then no issues.I think single guys need to know were to look .As a couple we would not go to a party were single guys are,it is not like a party were there a just single girls and couples.
I have no issue with the swing scene and seeing my OH with a guy who is part of a couple but not with a single guy.
I just think if a guy can't get a girl himself then why does he think he can have somebody's Else's I can tell you is the main thing with single males as I have spoken to other guys who like me are part of a couple.
I was once single and wanted to play the scene and I got a FB and we played together,That is my view,
Talk about Double Standards, and some people wonder why single males are not so keen to turn up to meets. While everyones entitled to they're opinion and the way the go about swinging, thats a double standard if ever there was one, and the attitude that if a guy can't have a woman he doesn't deserve yours? best of Luck with that!!! Them sort of perceptions are narrow minded, the notion that the only single males on here are lost causes and desperate cases is far from the truth, sure there are a few, but the majority that are swinging actively know the boundaries, and are highly respectable and respected, and mainly because they have shown themselves to be(hence they get party Invites).
This is the Kind of thing that puts those wanting to get into the scene change theyre minds, and sit frustrated at the sidelines.
Sex God
Quote by user=style1979
*****NEWSFLASH*****
Yes again more reports of no shows by women and couples...
OK the headline there was just to have a sense of balance to this post lol I have been on swinging sites here and elsewhere for a long time and i can honestly hand on heart say each time i've arranged to meet a woman they have always turned up........NOT.
Well it's not really news for most of us but here goes single women and couples also do no shows as evidenced by the comments above and we've all had experiences of this in the past (well most of us anyway). Yes some guys don't show up and that's terrible not to mention completely rude but the same goes for couples and single women who do this also.
Does it ever occur to anyone that one of the reasons that guys find it hard to get a look in is because posts like this appear on a regular basis after meets etc talking about guys not showing up all the time.
Its a similar problem as the people with Multiple accounts, you'd think they'd make theyre mind up which one they'd use, instead of trying to represent more than one viewpoint, when both seem eeerily similar.
Sex God
I think jealousy is one of them human emotions that is hard to sudue, I think its more a case of how we channel that emotion and deal with it, more so that trying to eliminate it altogether, Raven made a great point, it can e something that adds to the turn on of swinging if the persons involved can compartmentalize it and deal with it in the right way.
I admit I wouldnt be human if I didnt get the odd twinge from time to time when I see I may have been excluded from someones fun, but on balance I know its the nature of the lifestyle and we all get our turn in joining in.
Sex God
Lucy, With Whispering we always suggest you ask permission to whisper as an all encompassing piece of chat etiquette.
The exception of course being with those that you are friendly with,or you are on a level with, which they won't make an issue of you whispering them without permission.
Sex God
Despite room Names or aforementioned criteria set in room names no one can impede you from having a conversation in a chat room, once its not purposely abusive to other chatters or the conversation is clearly an effort to cause trouble incite people etc.
i.e. Guy Opens a room 'BigBollox's' room Ladies only' Thenm single guys or couples go into the room and the chat host proceeds to kick the single males etc this is not permitted, because you open a room does not mean you set your own rules, the room is your responsibility, but you must adhere to the site rules and the AUP, These rules, and the decisions of the moderators over ride anything else you may perceive to be your rules.
I Hope that helps.
Sex God
Great Post Mona,
and the first Time I met you if I recall
As a guy thats been here a while now and I have attended a few meet and greets and numerous parties( all from the back of one meet and greet I may add...bit of a domino effect)
I'm On the scene about 10 years now on and off, I was on the UK scene when I lived there and to be honest its a very different scene from here /..well bar the sex of course, but less digression, I was reasonably established on the local scene where I was living and through the grace of meeting a great cpl they introduced me to all the friends I made over there.
Fast forward to this time back in 2008 and I was contemplating returning to the scene after a while away from it, I realized fairly quickly I was starting from square one despite my experience, I was an unknown quantity, I was 'Just another single male' among the masses. I knew that it was going to take a bit of time to build some rapport. After many months in chat slowly getting some craic going with others I managed to get asked to my first meet and Greet in Autumn 08, I met some great folks that Night, though was crapping myself as I only knew one lady attending whom I'd met a few weeks before hand, so to say I was nervous was an understatement, not to mention the hovering around the bar trying to 'spot the swingers'....which I have to say was very hard, as they were dressed well and as if on a social night out( I had notions of seeing a gang of ladies gathered in tightly fastened Corsets( hey ...was my Imagination, I was allowed to let it run wild:P)
Anyway, I met Loads at that meet, I mingled, I drank a bit and I danced a small bit( very bloody badly I may add)I got to chat with a load of cool couples and singles and I went with an open mind just being glad I could attend as I know it was hard for single males to get asked to them at the time. The night ended, I had made some great new swing friends, and despite the fact I returned to my bed alone, I had thoroughly enjoyed myself.
Lo and behold came on site Monday and I knew loads, got a few meets from it, and a week or so later got asked to my First swing party by a couple I had met at the meet, and they obviously thought I was a decent skin ( Bonny and Clyde kudos
I am eternally Greatfull for that Invite)
Well from there the rest is History, I have had some great nights from this site, (not being a clubber anymore) I enjoy the meet and greets for the social side, and i have to say thats the way to treat it, if you do happen to get invited to play with a few sexy folks its just an added bonus.
As Mona said, the single guys are in short supply, I have been at loads of meets and its quiet disappointing to see so many sexy ladies left twiddling they're thumbs at the end of the night ( I do my best, but only so Much titan Luv I can spread around..joking)
So Lads, Get yer Fingers out, put the bit of effort in, the ladies are extremely approachable on the site, sure they might bust yer balls a bit in chat but its all in good fun and playing the ** cough** 'Mating Game' but believe me you will Kick yourself for not going, let not shyness be an issue, god Knows I am a shy person on the Bar scene....don't laugh yee fookers ...tis true....No One will make any judgments of you, any ridiculous expectations, just be yourself, and your good at being that so be natural. Go with the flow, and if you don't get together with anyone keep heart, getting to know the people socially first is one of the most important elements of Swinging, the sex is just the red cherry on top of a very enjoyable cake, with many great ingredients.
Ok Enough Of my banter,
Lads read this , get yer good shirt ironed, and stick a few creases in them jeans, and get yer ass to The meet and Greet on the 9th and the 10th.
I'll be the smiley fecker at the bar, ....mines a Pear Bulmers by the way 8)
As a guy thats been here a while now and I have attended a few meet and greets and numerous parties( all from the back of one meet and greet I may add...bit of a domino effect)
I'm On the scene about 10 years now on and off, I was on the UK scene when I lived there and to be honest its a very different scene from here /..well bar the sex of course, but less digression, I was reasonably established on the local scene where I was living and through the grace of meeting a great cpl they introduced me to all the friends I made over there.
Fast forward to this time back in 2008 and I was contemplating returning to the scene after a while away from it, I realized fairly quickly I was starting from square one despite my experience, I was an unknown quantity, I was 'Just another single male' among the masses. I knew that it was going to take a bit of time to build some rapport. After many months in chat slowly getting some craic going with others I managed to get asked to my first meet and Greet in Autumn 08, I met some great folks that Night, though was crapping myself as I only knew one lady attending whom I'd met a few weeks before hand, so to say I was nervous was an understatement, not to mention the hovering around the bar trying to 'spot the swingers'....which I have to say was very hard, as they were dressed well and as if on a social night out( I had notions of seeing a gang of ladies gathered in tightly fastened Corsets( hey ...was my Imagination, I was allowed to let it run wild:P)
Anyway, I met Loads at that meet, I mingled, I drank a bit and I danced a small bit( very bloody badly I may add)I got to chat with a load of cool couples and singles and I went with an open mind just being glad I could attend as I know it was hard for single males to get asked to them at the time. The night ended, I had made some great new swing friends, and despite the fact I returned to my bed alone, I had thoroughly enjoyed myself.
Lo and behold came on site Monday and I knew loads, got a few meets from it, and a week or so later got asked to my First swing party by a couple I had met at the meet, and they obviously thought I was a decent skin ( Bonny and Clyde kudos I am eternally Greatfull for that Invite)
Well from there the rest is History, I have had some great nights from this site, (not being a clubber anymore) I enjoy the meet and greets for the social side, and i have to say thats the way to treat it, if you do happen to get invited to play with a few sexy folks its just an added bonus.
As Mona said, the single guys are in short supply, I have been at loads of meets and its quiet disappointing to see so many sexy ladies left twiddling they're thumbs at the end of the night ( I do my best, but only so Much titan Luv I can spread around..joking)
So Lads, Get yer Fingers out, put the bit of effort in, the ladies are extremely approachable on the site, sure they might bust yer balls a bit in chat but its all in good fun and playing the ** cough** 'Mating Game' but believe me you will Kick yourself for not going, let not shyness be an issue, god Knows I am a shy person on the Bar scene....don't laugh yee fookers ...tis true....No One will make any judgments of you, any ridiculous expectations, just be yourself, and your good at being that so be natural. Go with the flow, and if you don't get together with anyone keep heart, getting to know the people socially first is one of the most important elements of Swinging, the sex is just the red cherry on top of a very enjoyable cake, with many great ingredients.
Ok Enough Of my banter,
Lads read this , get yer good shirt ironed, and stick a few creases in them jeans, and get yer ass to The meet and Greet on the 9th and the 10th.
I'll be the smiley fecker at the bar, ....mines a Pear Bulmers by the way 8) 
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