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1yummymummy4u
8 hours ago
Straight Female, 54
Straight Male, 50
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Welcome to the site, hope you find what your looking for. Look us up 
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I agree that dormant or fake profiles need to be deleted. As for the changes with every site new members are needed to keep the site going. I think the novices room is probably a bad name and should have been named something else like the lounge .
We need to be careful that we don't create a clique as swinging is quite scary for new people and be inclusive. The more popular the site is the more fun we can have.
We do rely heavily on the mods to keep the chat rooms sane which they do with great aplomb. I haven't seen anyone being abused in ages
I do think an announcement on the forum prior explaining the changes and the reasons for the change would have done a lot to allay any fears or apprehension.
I do think an announcement on the forum prior explaining the changes and the reasons for the change would have done a lot to allay any fears or apprehension.
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sometimes you need to remember that being right often doesn't make you popular.
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Quote by Jane-n-Charlie
I hope I didn't give you that impression yummymummy, I just meant that the word "straight" sounds to me to be a little odd to apply to anyone adventurous enough to play at this game. We have had electrifying sessions that could be labelled "straight" and "soft-swap" but they were by no means "swinging-lite" I can assure you!! Labels, shmabels!
It wasn't directed at you in 've had some great times but some times it seems that your not really in the "club" unless your a bi fem. I can see that women are attractive but I'm not attracted to them. I've nothing against gay or bi men but I'm not so sure id like to see my man with another man. I think its a waste of two good cocks!
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Maybe some people don't really look at what they put in their profile or put in what they think will attract more interest. Or perhaps they don't really know what it is they do want its a fantasy and they are toying with the idea.
There seems to be an undercurrent that says if your not Bi then your not really a swinger. Its like straight couples are doing swinging-lite but not really swinging. That kind of intolerance pisses me off. As long as there are no children or animals involved and everyone is a consenting adult doing whatever they want to do in private then good luck to them.
rant over
Yummy
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Thanks Kerry, just the shock of to be positive but it makes my blood boil.
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Went to Family party, came back and some little fecks robbed the house. Nothing irreplacable taken but sense of security in our own home shattered.
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Well parties are fun, weather your playing or just having a laugh.
Allowic, its fun not being left out. I wouldn't take it personally, if you had a great time hosting a party then that's what's important.
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"whats goes around comes around"
"picking it will only make it worse"
"badness goes where badness is welcome"
"least said soonest mended"
"better to be lookin' at it than lookin' for it"
"so sharp you cut yourself"
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So we need rooms for all the swinging cats lol. Sounds like you really need a house or a large apartment. MMM penthouse party !
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Raven, its getting very much like one of those maths questions i hated in school.
if you 15 couples and only 3 of them are bi and you have 4 rooms how many people get laid in each room? 
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Is there an number of people for a swing party. Is there a couples/singles ratio. what about male female ratio. I know some people will say the more the merrier but maybe there are too many.
What do people think here ?
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I think its an urban myth. Anyway pampas grass tends to take over the garden if not contained.
I've no pampas grass in my garden. My mother in law does and I doubt shes a swinger!
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Spend two hours today being bounced round call centre hell. Having to explain the situation to four people from the start every time just so they can tell me its not their department and ending up with the first person I called! Two hours of my life I'm not getting back.
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Looking at the two replies
"So why do you think you deserve to have my attention" goes down as comment most likely to create disinterest.
And " Only on the site a day and have 185 messages, I can pick who I like to fuck me" erm we all pick who we like to fuck us isn't that the point !
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Thanks alicolwic and Slightly. Just trying to get the word out to people. There have been a lot of people stung by this scam.
Although in slightlys case she probably gets a lot of persistent callers
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Hi Along here. We've been getting calls from Indian people from "online PC doctor" claiming that there is a problem with our PC. The number has been listed as out of area. Theres a long thread on the subject on "Another"web site.
No support company cold calls to tell you theres a problem with your pc.
Do not give them credit card details or allow access to your pc.
Do not visit any site they mention as it downloads some nasty malware to your pc.
Best just to tell them you dont have a PC as they can be quite persistant
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Your probably best to delete the mail and block the user. You should really report any thing thats untoward to the site admins. Its probably someones idea of a joke, thats not very funny. Its the Internet, some people are idiots and nothings going to change that.
However we do agree on something with your unsolicited mailer, your profile is very yummy. You are right about one thing theres plenty of really great people here too so don't let the idiots stop you from enjoying your thing.
Hope to see you in the chat rooms
Yummy and Along XXX
You are right about one thing theres plenty of really great people here too so don't let the idiots stop you from enjoying your thing.
Hope to see you in the chat rooms
Yummy and Along XXX
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or you can look at the guide to swinging posted in the main main menu link.
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Mods are people they don't have to like everyone here. What they shouldn't do is treat you any different regardless of personal feelings. I haven't had any bad experiences with the mod team who are as far as I can see trying to do a job that is pretty much thankless. I can only say I've seen them consistently apply the site rules with tact, which is all you can ask of a Mod. If people have a problem about an incident here, there a complaints process.
My hubby was a moderator on a different site, so I seen some of the personal abuse hed get from some site members. He gave up after a year because he said he spent more time sorting out other peoples arguments than actually having discussions about the subject he was interested in. Some people think just because its the Internet they can say anything they like to you. However as he often said just because someones an arse hole doesn't make them wrong.
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Wow deep Mona.
I suppose we fall into the swinging couples category.
1. to the swinging couples: Do you believe that you have a faithful relationship given that you don't practice monogamy? And why?
We have made a commitment to each other and what I would say is emotionally monogamous. When we swing we do it as a couple something we both share and enjoy. we are both very honest with each other, its how we came into the lifestyle in a way. We recognized that sometimes wed like to fuck someone was a bit of an odd realization as it didn't quite fit with the traditional view of love and marriage. We didn't want it to destroy our relationship as its is special. Called me old fashioned but there is a difference between being physically and emotionally intimate and fucking. There is love , trust and respect, We are comfortable enough to know that we still want to spend the rest of our lives swinging ever becomes an issue then we stop, that simple. Our relationship is more important than that.
How would you view it if your partner met someone else and you were not aware of it? Would that be infidelity to you? And how is this different?
I would consider it infidelity. Its different in that they are doing something behind my back so to speak. Relationships only work if you are honest about the important things. Hes allowed to lie when I ask does my bum look big in this
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People are single for all sorts of reasons. We were all single once, although for some of us its a dim and distant memory Some people are arseholes regardless of relationship status or sex.
Although I did wonder what happens to people who are single and meet someone whos outside the lifestyle. What happens then ?
Some people are arseholes regardless of relationship status or sex.
Although I did wonder what happens to people who are single and meet someone whos outside the lifestyle. What happens then ?
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I think the single guys have a more difficult time in the scene, especially the younger ones. Also many swingers are looking for couples and this normally raises the age profile.
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"You are painting all feminists with one brush. Not all feminists think that way"
I said "so called" as I don't believe real feminists see being at home as some sort of second place prize instead of working outside the home.
I still think that people get equal and the same mixed up. I think that feminism has pushed Independence on men in a way as they have had to fend for them selves.
I see quite a few stay at home dads these days as many are out of mothers are still working and the roles are now reversed. Its ironic to see the unsaid hostility that some women have for these men as they are somehow less of a man for staying at home to mind the kids. Plus they don't have the same support network many of the mothers do. Equality works both ways or it doesn't work at all.
I remember a long time ago my Mr brought my eldest down to the parent and toddler group. I was very sick and he took the day off to mind my eldest daughter. I asked him how it went "She had a ball, but I got treated like a paedo. None would even talk to me, I knew I was not welcome if it wasn't pissing rain I would have taken her to the park."
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I object to so called feminists telling me that I have to be out working to have some sort of validation as a person.I always thought it was about options as in having some. Men and Women should be treated equally . We also have to remember that Men and Women are not the same.
Although I do think we are raising a generation of Women who have no domestic abilities as they see it as beneath them. They cannot not look after themselves. The irony is that it the young men you have learned to take care of themselves and maybe thats what its done for Men.
Yes it maybe argued that women don't need men anymore but lets face it girls its a lot less fun
