......with random strangers, is this not a form of suicide, dicing with death!!! (bit harsh you may think but it is reality). I've seen it all too often in the photo gallery proudly showing themselves off doing the deed with no condom, both here and on other sites. I've also seen it on cam in chat, those having a 'great time' with no condom used!! I've often put this to certain members who approach me to meet up and have been told 'oh it's an ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend!! Maybe so but it's a turn off for me, oh and this is my thinking on this I'm not speaking for anyone else. I will also go and check to see who they have met up with via comments etc and steer clear of them also. Now to each their own and I know accidents can happen, but seriously to continuosly have unprotected sex with multiple random people, those they don't actually know!! I know condoms are not the nicest of things but it is a show of respect if nothing else! This issue has raised it's head from time to time within the forums but it does need to be highlighted now and then, especially of late where it is as clear as day those not using protection both on cams in chat and in photos on profiles!! Apologies for the lengthy rant, I'm done!!
The best post I've read here..... ever!
Well said Amberx :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:
Know the Safe Sex Code folks! :thumbup:
Although my wife and I do not use condoms with each other, we insist that a condom is used whenever we swing. Always have and always will. No exceptions, regardless of the circumstances.
Amber :clap: :clap: Well said. I have been thinking that myself over the last couple of weeks. I routinely :eeek: look at the gallery and am gobsmacked at the amount of unprotected sex. I have also noticed it on cams. But to be honest i am happy that they have these pics up, go on cam and have comments by serial barebackers because I steer clear away from them....because the majority will tell you they practice safe sex but pictures speak louder than words.......:bs:
Again Amber thanks for bringing this important subject up :clap:
It is unfortunate that this sound advice has to be repeated so often.
Echoing Ali's post - well said Amber.
So many people limit their fun by performing bareback on cam or in the Gallery.
:clap::clap::clap: Amberx
why in this day and age of "liberated thinking" is it still sooooo hard for people to buy a pack of condoms.:-o...its not like u even have to go to a check out person anymore, u can get'em in just about every toilet n supermarket (wit self checkouts)...n they come in all textures n flavours
sometimes can be more fun wit em!!!!
Well said Amberx:thumbup:
I have seen the pics in the gallerys and often wondered about this myself.
Anyone stupid enough to have unprotected sex with relative strangers must be mad
Considering that there are hundreds of alleged singles on here who are actually married, or in a relationship, it makes you wonder how they do / would explain it to their partners/ wives/husbands if they caught a STD or ended up fathering / mothering someone elses child
Great post Amber :thumbup:
Amber, well said :clap::clap:
Anyone indulging in bareback antics with strangers are playing with fire in my book, it's sheer lunacy and shows no respect for others.
Play safe.....always:thumbup:
absolute disgrace in a lifestyle like this that unsafe sex still goes on. Ive seen it on cam before and thought "i was gonna meet that guy, but not a hope now"
Ive also heard the reply to it that its ok as im on the pill, are girls stupid enough to think that pregnancy is the worst thing that can happen? If a guy complains that he cant get it up with a condom or that its not as plesurable - kick him to the kerb - theres plenty of men in here that are more than happy to glove up !!!
well said amber but this thread will still fall on deaf ears there are still lots of peeps that dont care well they would if they caught some thing and then it too late. so all i say is keep it covered and stay safe
Great and important post amber, it often surprises us how many people are happy to "not mind playing without condom", it's Russian roulette. Sadly it's not just a swing4i or an irish thing, we were recently in Vegas and were chatting / playing a bit while there, and the amount of people who want to meet and scarily wouldn't meet at all if condoms were mentioned. My favourite line is, oh we fine we get tested all the time.
It can take some time for many STD to turn up in a test, meanwhile your Friends family and kids could have all shared in your fun and infections.
Sing it with me now, pro tect ion ......
It is not only through penetration that you can catch an std, oral sex also puts people at risk, and it surprises me the amount of people who do not think about that and don't use any protection, its easy with a man just slap a rubber on and suck away but women can pass stds through oral sex too and no one seems to think of putting some form of protection on the pussy before they go down on it, so either use some protection or keep away from it.
Good post Amber.
Isnt that what girls get when they dont use protection? Haha just kidding. But on a serious note, maybe this thread should become a sticky. Its a really important issue after all.
Photo, do many ppl read the Sexual Health section? I wonder
People tend to read the forms more, I suspect. Such an important topic as this should be made a sticky imho.
Eden, I'm with you on this one :thumbup:
Quote by user=Cloud9 Photo, do many ppl read the Sexual Health section? I wonder
I shouldn't imagine that a great amount do Cloud. But are those who don't reckless and unconcerned in comparison to those that do. Without making little of the subject matter, which is important, there was a period when the first 10 to 15 items on this anything goes forum where all sticky posts. Site Mods / admin cleared this up and created relevant sections for the important threads.
can i admit to never reading the stickys and automatically going to the first other thread below them....even when i had 2 of my own thread stickied i tended to forget about them.
Quote by user=desdemona can i admit to never reading the stickys and automatically going to the first other thread below them....even when i had 2 of my own thread stickied i tended to forget about them.
Would tend to agree with you on that one Mona, just need to look at the number of views on the regular threads to see they are viewed a lot more often than the stickies
last time i rode a horse bare back i was walking like a bow legged cowboy for a month so never again :doh:
and before anyone comment yes im from limerick
Just had to mention that there is a group here named"love sex without condoms" I couldnt believe it when I saw it on someones profile today...checked it out and there are 61 members!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes I love sex without condoms but only with my husband,so Im assuming the members of this group mean the same thing???????????????? That they only have sex without condoms with their longterm fulltime partners???? *shudders at the thoughts otherwise*
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sometimes can be more fun wit em!!!!
Well said Amberx:thumbup:
People tend to read the forms more, I suspect. Such an important topic as this should be made a sticky imho.
Eden, I'm with you on this one :thumbup:
