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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 115
Ireland
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Quote by user=midnightchat
Amazing what a difference two letters make, let me demostrate......
'It came up in a conversation recently that the reason someone wouldnt invite single WOmen to their parties was because....if they were so hot and decent.....then surely they wouldnt be single!!!!
As if they were decent.....then they would be able to keep a man...or a man would want to keep them. That they must have something wrong with them to still be single!!'
I understand that it is felt a solo male at a party does not always behave in a respectful manner and may seem to view the access he has to other men's wives as a meat party. Experience has shown this is not an absolute, there are some FANTASTIC single guys here. I also refuse to believe a band of gold automatically renders a man the epitome of chivalry and respect. People have the right to set their own parameters and choose who attends their parties. I would never suggest otherwise but I just want to say on this matter........ there are solo males on this site who have shown themselves to be outstanding human beings and I would be hard pressed to find their match amongst the general social scene.
The problem here is sterotyping, ok we've all done that in the past i know i have done although i try not to as i know it's not a fair thing to do. People are entitled to set whatever criteria they please and i know most of the parties that are advertised say "sorry males are not allowed to attend this party" actually i often laugh at that & i mean the wording does that mean it will only be women at the party lol but i do know what's meant by it
I don't know about the parties that are not advertised but i am sure it is the same situation for the most part.As has been said you could say the same thing for single women on the site, each person should be judged on his / her merits and not put into a category but i know that will never change.
Also we can never know why someone is single or the circumstances of their lives at the moment so you can't really say oh they're single for reason x y & z and decide what kind of person they are on that basis, being single isn't something that people should be ashamed of male or female. I am no longer single myself but when i did start seeing someone i didn't change into a completely different person as a result overnight.
:cheers: 
