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ravenfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
Straight Male, 50
0 km · Dublin
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NEXT:giggle:Quote by user=alan-ball
Friends with - Is there a fine line between, having a friend with benefits and being in a full relationship.
For me the friend with benefits is the odd text during the day, and setting the date to meet.
What would you be like if your friend with benefits was texting you lots, and phoning, and saying they were missing you? And not wanting to meet others, and if you say your meeting others you get looks that could kill or the cold treatment.
Would you cool it or just carry on, in my mind I know what I would do , but just asking peeps opinions.
So where would you draw your line in the sand.
There is a very thin line between fwb and a relationship, but it does depend on your situation, if you are single and not seeing anyone then it may not be a big problem but if you are in a relationship it can cause serious problems, after all when you are single you have no one but yourself to think of when your attached you have your partner to think of and while they may have no problem with your lifestyle, it could cause problems when the fwb becomes the other man or woman.
If we had a fwb and they got that clingy sorry but they would be told in no uncertain terms where to go. They are abusing the friendship by trying to emotionally black mail you and wanting more than what was agreed in the first place, and if they want a relationship they should go to a dating site. Sorry if that is harsh but this is a sex site and when you let your emotions take over it is time to move on.
We get a lot of private gallery invites and sadly they are always single males, dont get us wrong we understand that they may do it to get attention in hope of a meet but when we have never spoke to them before it seems very very strange, most of the time we dont bother to look. We will send an invite to our private pics to people we would like to meet but only after we have spoken to them.
In regard to favorites.....we are sick to death of people who again have never spoken to us adding us to their favorites..for the love of christ chat to us first, cause for all you know you could hate us if you get to know us.
We would be happy to hold the camera:haha: