Where do you draw your line in the sand.
you go to a meet/party/for coffee at what point would you draw the line & say thanks but no thanks.
Personally I find that rudeness, over use of the F word, being course, too much drink/drugs or being overly pushy would put me off & of course as I have stated previously age, I do not meet people any more than 15 years younger than me (so no under 35's, although I am happy to chat & have drinks with them there would be no fun).
Friends with - Is there a fine line between, having a friend with benefits and being in a full relationship.
For me the friend with benefits is the odd text during the day, and setting the date to meet.
What would you be like if your friend with benefits was texting you lots, and phoning, and saying they were missing you? And not wanting to meet others, and if you say your meeting others you get looks that could kill or the cold treatment.
Would you cool it or just carry on, in my mind I know what I would do , but just asking peeps opinions.
So where would you draw your line in the sand.
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Where do you draw your line in the sand
Great thinking thread Alan-Ball...
First meets I wouldn't judge too quickly as people are nervous mostly and act out of character, I know I have done it at times, but if there was no connection at all I would just pleasantly ease myself out of the situation..
All fwb's are different, depends on levels of friendship, but if someone was intruding persistently on my family time, privacy, asking for meets when we both agreed times it didn't suit, asking constantly about who I was meeting, I would talk to them first and if the matter wasn't resolved then bow out..
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Friends with - Is there a fine line between, having a friend with benefits and being in a full relationship.
For me the friend with benefits is the odd text during the day, and setting the date to meet.
What would you be like if your friend with benefits was texting you lots, and phoning, and saying they were missing you? And not wanting to meet others, and if you say your meeting others you get looks that could kill or the cold treatment.
Would you cool it or just carry on, in my mind I know what I would do , but just asking peeps opinions.
So where would you draw your line in the sand.
There is a very thin line between fwb and a relationship, but it does depend on your situation, if you are single and not seeing anyone then it may not be a big problem but if you are in a relationship it can cause serious problems, after all when you are single you have no one but yourself to think of when your attached you have your partner to think of and while they may have no problem with your lifestyle, it could cause problems when the fwb becomes the other man or woman.
If we had a fwb and they got that clingy sorry but they would be told in no uncertain terms where to go. They are abusing the friendship by trying to emotionally black mail you and wanting more than what was agreed in the first place, and if they want a relationship they should go to a dating site. Sorry if that is harsh but this is a sex site and when you let your emotions take over it is time to move on.
