Looking to build good friendships with a circle of people so we can enjoy more warmth, fun and intimacy with intelligent and interesting people. We are explorers, well read on topics of sexuality and intimacy - we want something more than monogamy can offer and much more than casual promiscuity.  The friendships will be the key - people looking for a quick fuck need not apply. Words are so erotic - intelligence and skill more so. We don't have perfect bodies and we don't expect them - but we do need engagement and people willing to take a risk.