Ah this is an infamous email that's being going around for years, which has found it's way onto our site. People, beware of this person, they are conmen, here trying to make you part from your money. They say they just want to use your back account to lodge money but what they do is empty ur account. They promise you the world, and unbelievely there are hundreds of thousands of ppl who fall for it each year. These people are usually just men in nigeria/jamaica, so be careful people and don't give this person the time of day.
Regards,
MrHDC
true i undestand mr what your saying about the validation on other "pay" sites
what im suggesting is a voting system to prove your real ive seen you and mrs on cam (and yummy) so i can give u one vote the more votes you have the more credible you are .same goes for a meet if i had met you all went well id give you a vote and maybe a 5 star rating bit if you were an asshole or had hygiene probs id give a one star rating this would weed out the fakes .
So if you get a low star rating or low
vote you think fuk this im gonna make a new profile, it would be of no benefit to you cos your rating goes back to 0 again .
Another prob would be people who want to stay in background which is fine too and they want to stay anonomous that could be solved by asking dolly or other mods to enter a private room for a validation (to prove your male or female not a fake) then that mod would give u 1 validation vote without anyone else seeing you
please add your points good or bad
cheers
I do t hink the validation system is in some ways good, but it has way too many possible flaws for a non-paysite. As you say some1 can vote on u regardless whether they have met you or not, seen you on cam or not. Therefore, for example, my missus gets tons of whispers a day, and to her credit tries to reply to most of them, but can't reply to them all. So all the ones who dont' reply to her, think, ignorant b*itch, i'll give her a low rating, and a few others do the same, before you know it, our rating is very low and ppl think we're something we're obviously not. So as i say it is a good idea, but in the end ultimately, personally, i think it would fail.
Regards,
MrHDC
Glad to see some ideas being put in here as this was exactly why i wrote this thread. Josh, i like your idea of the ignore option, as i too have also seen this on other swinging sites and makes things alot easier. Another possible new feature i would suggest, would be say, being able to set a restriction on who can whisper you. If your a fem, and your only looking for fems, then u can set it up that only fems can whisper you, or couples can set it so only fems and couples can whisper them and so on and so on. If you've set it up that u don't want whispers from males, but u need to whisper them, then there would be a right click option on their name and allow this user to whisper you. Just an idea and any others i'm sure would be greatly welcome.
Regards,
MrHDC
First, can i just begin by saying that this in no way is a dig at mods as i think their necessary to help the site run properly.
But, recently there has been alot of fighting in the chat rooms, and 90% of these arguements are caused by ppl breaking the rules (most of the time, unintentionally) and the mods who in fairness are doing their jobs.
My proposal would be, perhaps to scrap these rules, but keep the mods. The role of the mod tho would be to just sit in the background and be there when needed in extreme cases i.e. abusive behaviour, racism etc etc.
Mods are on this site to make new friends too, but how can they do that if every two mins their pasting in NO CAPS, NO WHISPERS NO DIRECTING...and so on?
If a person uses caps, so what? It's just a few caps, nothing more.
If some1 whispers you, so what? Ignore them, and soon they will go away. If these whispers become abusive then u can just whisper a mod and ask them to deal with this person. Simple.
Directing. This should be down to the cammers discretion. Alot of cammers don't mind the directing as most of them just ignore it. Also there are some who don't like it, and again they can just ask this person not to direct themselves, or they coulld whisper a mod to help them out.
If a person gets kicked/banned for a day for breaking the rules, especially abusive ppl, they can come back the next day and be all goody goody obey the rules. I feel this way, ppl don't get to really see that person for the abusive person they are, so if they do meet them, their going to be meeting some1 who was pretending to be something their not.
If this constant bickering continues, this site will fall apart and drive lots of genuine ppl away to other sites that aren't like kindergartens.
So to conclude, i think perhaps admin should review some rules and take peoples ideas on board, to make this site what its supposed to be. A fun place to meet genuine like minded ppl who want to swing. These are just my opinions and ideas, but if any1 else has any ideas i would like to hear from them and discuss them.
Kind Regards,
Mrhdc.
P.S. i reckon at least 99% of new members that come onto this site just click on the chatroom link, and don't even bother with the rules.
Regards,
MrHDC