Okay, okay, pardon the pun. Perhaps I should have said, " gis a leg up". lol  
      Hi Marie,
thanks for that, much appreciated. If you come across me will you give me a hand please. 
Thanks again.  
      Hi all, 
Just signed up here and feeling a wee bit lost. Overawed by the chatrooms, so fast. If I offend please forgive me, it's not intentional. Looking to chat initally with single or solo married ladies. Hopefully someone will show me the ropes.
Thanks.
J