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Titan79
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 46
0 km · Offaly
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Sex God
Quote by user=tom4
Here we go again, all men are shites, couples are loverly and women are angels. Fact is there are gobshites of both sexes and there are nice people of both sexes. There are the morons who go into a room and wank off and get annoyed because a girl on cam wont put her toes in her ears for them. There are also the women who routinely post each and every whisper they get, even from a guy saying "Hi" once.
They are the same creature those two, getting off on others and using them for whatever odd form of pleasure they are looking for. They have no more intention of meeting someone or chatting to someone than the Pope (though I wonder who the guy with the username BenedictXVI is lol).
Titans point is well made and his original post dosent single out single males. Unfortunately the follow ups arent quite as fair and a bit of balance is required.
The piece of advice that says ignore the first Hi whisper is still I think good advice. If the eejit says Hi a second time by all means I will help anyone show him the door.
It is really intimidating to have to ask in a room can I whisper because in 9 out of 10 cases guys get no answer and in fairness folks, we single guys have to be thick skined but its pretty shagging annoying to ask and get silence in response
Tom,
you make a very valid pint, I am blue in the face telling people to just ignore the whispers and only when they get abusive or nasty should they be put in main chat. in most cases ignoring them works, though there are a certain breed in here that go about the same old repetitive behavior regardless of warnings etc.
On the other hand there are some that are here for a considerable length of time tend to think they can get away with nasty remarks, (maybe in jest in there eyes) but on the whole insulting all the same. Just because you have been a member for a considerable length of time it sure as hell does not mean its acceptable, Do you carry on in the same manner in day to day life? or do you think that when 'Its just another website' and not 'real life' you have free reign for this behavior?
If anyone thinks I am being a moany old git, ah well, more power to you!!!, we all have the right to express our opinions in the chat rooms respectfully, but when these are just empty soundings that purposely aim to make little of others its not really fun, and its very childish.
As a paying member it gives no one the right to carry on in a way that aims to intimidate, Make little of or harass others.
Sex God
** Plays with Hair and suggestively Bites on tip of his finger** Nah this flirting perplexes me, I wouldn't know where to start, I don't think Ive ever flirted with a member of the opposite sex in me life not to mention the same sex.
I suppose it has to be the same sex Virgo being a bi forum, so go on Girls flirt among yerselves there, Ol Titan loves to see two women.... ahem!! I mean Let me observe for educational reasons.
Sex God
Do you like members of the opposite sex?
No
Yes : I do
Do you like members of the same sex?
No
Yes I have been known to
Have you ever had a sexual experience with a member of the same sex?
No
Yes aye I had a few
Do you want to?
No
Yes Do I want to what? have sex with member of the same sex?..depends on a few criteria.
Have you ever fantasized about the same sex?
No
Yes I have
Gotten off to thoughts of the same sex?
No
Yes Aye I have.
Watched gay porn?
No
Yes Yup I have.
Have you seen members of the same sex and thought they were hot?
No
Yes an odd one
Would you have a threesome with one member of the opposite sex and one of the same sex?
No
Yes ah I have
Does looking at the a same sex member's genitalia turn you on?
No No Not really.
Yes
Virgo, I have to say that quiz is a bit harmless hun, I thought would be a bit more sophisticated to come to its conclusions.
Sex God
Well as a hairy-ish guy I can say most I've been with said they liked it, i did try the smooth look down below and besides the unholy image of a plucked chicken it resembled and the fact it itched like feck, I wont be doing that again so fast( a small trim will suffice), and I can also say though it gave me an appreciation of what the ladies must have to go through keeping nice and smooth down there.
Sex God
Thanks folks for the comments I was just speaking my mind. I also notice i feckin duplicated the post so I have removed the initial version as i thought I had removed it.
Lucan I agree with you whole heartedly it is only a minority that have lead me to posting this, but you know what they say about a few bad apples.
As a side note to the initial post I hope that this will empower a few less vocal members to standing up for they're right to enjoy chat without having to be subjected to the nonsense outlined in my first post.
Sex God
I am writing the following as a member and not as a Mod,
yes believe it or not us Mods have opinions on things too!
After a rather exceptionally busy day at 'Chat towers' I have to say the amount of un solicited whispering and general nastiness I have seen on the last few days astounds me.
I mean I like to think that those that are in the chat rooms are on the whole balanced civilized individuals. but in all fairness some of the questions I seen a female cammer getting asked tonight in a directing room beggared belief, I mean had I not known better and I was a new member going into chat for the first time I would have been appalled and not so keen to return again for a while., crass and down right rude childish behavior of some left an awful lot to be desired, these same people wonder why they can't make any connections with people on the site?
I mean if you go on like a pack of sex starved teenage boys who have never had the pleasure of a womans company, nor basic knowledge of the female body your really not going to get far in the swinging world.
People that are in this lifestyle for the right carry themselves with a basic sense of respect for themselves and others, and I know for one that if you carried on with such behavior in a real world scenario be it in a public bar or at a swinging party you would be swiftly told to sling your hook. I mean think about it, do you really think that any woman will endear herself to you if the most 'seductive' thing you can utter in a chat room is 'how many fingers can you get up there' or similar. now I aint no prude but feck me there is a time and a place for the filthy chat and believe me there are plenty on here that can have the fun when it gets down to the brass tacks, surely if you stopped for a second and just think about it would you like it to be your girlfriend/wife in the same position? Yes we all know our special lady can be a right 'naughty girl' in the right mood, but believe me lads your peddling a unicycle up a greasy hill with the kind of approach I sadly see from a few in chat night after night.
Now for the facts, and bear with me, I know many of you won't read this but I think it really warrants some thought.
just because a woman shows an interest in swinging and is comfortable enough with her sexuality it does not mean she is open to abuse and because you have a horn on you will be falling over herself to take a running jump at you and help you unleash your 'tension'. Your hand and your imagination are a far more sure bet of getting your kicks.
Swingers if anyone have a far more discerning approach to sex and are far more selective, they know what they like and they sure as hell have heard all the crap lines before. Have a think about starting an actual conversation, and developing some rapport with the object of your lust. I assure you and you can put your money on this no single woman and for that part most couples will entertain any advances you make without first being sure you have a bit of decency about you and that you have some level of respect for them.
Tonight despite Numerous warnings there were a lot kicked from chat, now some may crib that this is unfair and that they did it by accident, well sorry but when you enter the room you are clearly informed about the chat rooms policy. You have to consider that the intended target of your whispers could be deep in conversation with someone else , or that they actually want to be spoken to in a civilized manner. Looking to go straight into a whisper with someone after 30 seconds of starting a conversation is a sure sign of 'Warning chat wanker' and most won't entertain you. Tell me honestly, if you were in a bar or club, and in the same time frame of making initial contact with a stranger they asked you to step out to a secluded area, I am sure you'd expect to be told to take a hike or if the shoe was on the other foot, you'd telling them that!, so why then do people think that when they come into a chartroom that a person in they're right mind, with some degree of intelligence and cop on is going to be seduced into whispers in such a short time frame.
This goes back to my initial comment about swingers being more discerning, because someone is on this site does not mean they are a 'easy lay, far from it, but believe me the effort and the time taken to get to know people on here in most circumstances is well worth it.
So the next time you log into chat, and are about to get your cock out in your hand and think you can sneek in a quick wank at the expense of someone on cam, have a good long look at yourself and remind yourself of this,
How many great sexy encounters you are depriving yourself off with some fine genuine people on here?, sure you get a quick fix from your continuing your current 'Modus operandi' but crass rude whispers won;'t endear you to anyone, why not invest that energy showing that same person you are a half decent being, and in turn you'll reap the rewards of some good old honest 'real' fun one to one, or at a party.
Right I have enough ranting done, Time for bed.
Titan79.
Sex God
Quote by user=Virgogirl
Dear Titan....
Ah we had great fun choosing you some suitable attire, perfect for a night out with a hot lady, and guaranteed to have her drooling at the sight of you..*sniggers*...
Given that you are used to wearing a tie and suit for work, we decided that you should ditch the more formal look, and go for our dress up, dress down festive formal wear..
We do have some very shiny yellow pants in stock, please feel free to order at no extra cost...
Miss dora and Miss Virgin..
...Looks like me long lost uncle three times removed then replaced, uncle 'titantico' I have a bit of Spanish in me(all true Galwegians have), or could be my Greek uncle too by the look of that 'Tache'
uncle 'Titanopolopolis'
( I know its a mouthful):lick:
Sex God
Dear Fashionistas( that is the right word aint it??) I have today been dealt the qwandry of dressing up for a little soirée a lady wants me to attend, the thing is I never been one for the monkey suit, I wear a 'work noose' everyday in My job so I prefer the more casual look when I socialize, any tips for a muck savage that thinks Gucci is a terminal illness.
Sex God
...Not a bad Idea, but I would invest in some body Armour first if I was you, I think you might get a few wallops from most ladies for suggesting such, a lot of people have to come to the conclusion themselves that swinging is for them, and many in the whole don't have the same outlook on sexuality as the majority you find on the site.
Sex God
Quote by user=alan-ball
how about this one...a little straighter & transparent...so you can view the babana
That banana straightener is a bit too Phallic looking for my Liking, and the ribbed bit in the middle makes me think did a woman design it, with other purposes in mind?.....................Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
I came into this thread in a bit of a panic thinking someone was looking to start a 'happy slapping' Group or similar, the thread title is bemusing.
Sex God
Yummy, as for the standing about like spare pricks bit, well not for too long I hope. I find that us guys...well unless we are between 19 and 25 need a small bit of respite time between bouts, the women can Kinda just while the night away regardless, I was at a party lately and one lady wore 4 of us out in an hour or so (and fair dues to her I may add.. lol we weren't wall flowers) so in that respect i think the slightly more males to females ratio works well. I know that some couples may not want meets like this but thats ok, horses for course, I find most guys that get to parties regularly have enough manners and cop on to relax and go with the flow and not all 'gang up' on a woman at once, which I imagine must be very daunting for some.
Nice to see you back. A sure a :doggy: for mrs M for old times sake and a gentle slap for yourself:beer: