Hi! I just think how everything so far(about my point of view)about this subject was wrong.I am going to 35,married,never cheated on my wife but still thinking and fantazing about that (many times in fact).I think that shouldnt be something to be ashamed of,we got a sex like a thing which was supposed to be enjoable but in many cases is quite opposite and people suffer over it instead of giving and getting pleasure.I am able to destinguish between love and sex and i am ready to spend the rest of my life(i just know that) with my lovely wife which i love her a lot but sex is not the greatest part in our lives.I have a fantazy to make love with her mother(but not to hurt them and their feelings not just want to make it for her mother pleasure,for both of us!

Am i right to think like that or thats wrong and kind of obsession snd sickness.I havent talked to my wife yet so if Its there somebody to help me with some kind of you people/peace and love from me