With my wife since i was 17, thats 24 years now!

She stopped wanting intimacy after our last child a decade ago, i tried to accept it for years, but nature took over and i started meeting "professional girls" to scratch the itch, but it is illegal and sometimes uncomfortable, so looking for a more sustainable solution,

My kids need me at home for at least another 12 years, so that limits my options for now,

I am a manly man, have a good job, good money, a very strong dad-bod, clean and healthy, I am pretty open minded, but I especially like oral and i like the esthetics of smoking or vaping (i think it is pretty for a woman the smoke of vape)