Not meeting anyone for the time being but will probably still come into chatroom for the banter

I wont be answering the templated 'I'd like to know more' mails so dont waste yer time, mails that are made up all by yourself are much better appreciated.

about me: I am married with kids, work full time, so life is fairly hectic. At the moment am just looking but maybe when things calm down a bit for me i would like to meet some people.

I have longish blonde hair (subject to change), am of average build, definitely not skinny but don't think u would count me as fat either (altho feeling a bit that way today) spose u could say i gots curves in all the right places ;)

Would be interested in getting to know people in their 30's, (maybe a couple of years either side) personality is key but obviously there has to be a physical attraction also, prefer taller guys

p.s. I don't wish to meet couples on my own so please don't ask.