Thanks for providing the opening for a discussion. We recently decided to try swinging but have yet to get started, Still unsure as how best to start. Kind of still sitting at the edge of the pool with our toe feeling the temperature without yet just taking the plunge!! Anyone with any advice on how best to dive in???
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New and Nervous
hi cumtemptus
my advice for you would to be careful and not to expect too much too soon. lots of times a bad experience can stop a couple from taking the swinging scene further which is a shame.
as jilljack said - partys can be a good way to start as there is no pressure on you to "perform":giggle:
go into the chatrooms - theres normally a room for couples in there - and test the waters by talking to other couples:thumbup:
dont get disheartened if you dont find someone straight away
sometimes these things take time
so a big hearty:welcome: to swing and look forward to talking to u again
louise
sometimes these things take time
so a big hearty:welcome: to swing and look forward to talking to u again
louise Cheers for that Louise. Appreciate the effort (love the icons!) you put into your advice. Yes, think we'll follow along those lines and wait for an appropriate opportunity to arrive by keeping our eyes and ears open for a suitable party. As with anything, hoping that once the first step is taken, that all thoughts of nerves and fears will disappear!
Hi guys, yep, the chatroom, best place, mrbabycmisshicks and myself babychicks normally run a couples chatroom most nights, it's called"CPLES CHAT" but all are welcome there.
We get a good mix of people in there, couples and singles, and if u want to just sit and watch the chat thats ok, but u will find that it's not that bad to chat to most that will be in that room or any other room.
And if u have any problems just ask.
Hope to see u in there one night,
Good luck guys
