Hi all,
We have been members for quiet a while now. We have always agreed that our first encounter would be with a couple or a female only. The problem is that we dont want full swap with the other couple to start with. We are looking for us to have sex together and the other couple watch. And then for the deed to be reciprocated. I suppose you could call it dipping our toes in the water. It is what we agreed. We cannot find a couple in a similar situation. We are beginning to think that maybe it is time to give up.....Any advice or help out there....
Thanks
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Okayyyyyyyyy - Don't know you, never seen you around the chatrooms or much in the Forums either.
Questions have got to asked:
1] Do you use the chatrooms, to get to know other members here?
2] Have you posted on the Forums about your fantasy/direction of interest?
3] Do you attend any of the social gatherings that get organised, either locally or the bigger ones such as StudAndSexy run?
If not, then you need to get P R O - A C T I V E. Things don't land in your lap anywhere in life and here least of all.
Folks need to get to know others before they plan anything that gets up-close-and-personal, so connect with the members, and you will find that what you want will find you. Just mailing will never cut the mustard - real interaction starts with chatting. The Chatrooms may look like a random scroll of frivolity but underneath the giggles there is networking going on, folks are sussing out what other people are like - and whether they are likely to be those you'd want to be closer to. But it takes time, effort and lots of patience.
Stick with it - it will work out in the long run. Happy Hunting
Questions have got to asked:
1] Do you use the chatrooms, to get to know other members here?
2] Have you posted on the Forums about your fantasy/direction of interest?
3] Do you attend any of the social gatherings that get organised, either locally or the bigger ones such as StudAndSexy run?
If not, then you need to get P R O - A C T I V E. Things don't land in your lap anywhere in life and here least of all.
Folks need to get to know others before they plan anything that gets up-close-and-personal, so connect with the members, and you will find that what you want will find you. Just mailing will never cut the mustard - real interaction starts with chatting. The Chatrooms may look like a random scroll of frivolity but underneath the giggles there is networking going on, folks are sussing out what other people are like - and whether they are likely to be those you'd want to be closer to. But it takes time, effort and lots of patience.
Stick with it - it will work out in the long run. Happy Hunting
