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this is a guide to successful swinging taken from the , might be of interest to new members Number 1 The biggest tip that we can give you is have some pictures uploaded, even if they do not show your face or your head is edited out. People who have pictures on there profile get an improved reply and contact rate of over 300%! Number 2 When it comes to putting your pictures up the less dirty the shot generally the more replies that you will get. A lot of swingers want to have the personal parts of their bodies on display. This is fine but you should try to have a few less intimate shots as well. Number 3 Take time to write your profile in a way that is easy to understand and for best results contains the following: A few sentences about you and your partner (if you have registered as a couple) A description of what you are like Your level of swinging experience What you are looking for in swinging partners What someone should have to offer you What you like and dislike The times that are generally best for you to meet Anything else that will make you appealing to people. Here is an example of a good profile: "Hi, my wife and I are both in our early thirties, we live in the Hampshire area near the M27 and would describe ourselves as playful and adventurous when it comes to meeting people or fun in the bedroom. Helen is 5ft 6 inches tall with long straight blonde hair, she is a little ticklish when I suck her toes when we play in the bedroom. I am 32 years old with a good athletic build and have been told that I am well endowed. We are new to swinging and found that it might be of interest to us after watching a documentary on the TV, we are looking for either a professional couple in their mid to late twenties or for a BI female to join us both. We are not looking for older couples or couples who can not accommodate. Generally it will be best for us to meet either Friday evenings or Sunday nights. We have plenty more pictures that we can send you by e-mail, thanks for reading our profile, hope to speak to you soon." Number 4 Profile spelling - it is important that you check the spelling and grammar on your profile, you can even ask other members to check it for you when you are in the chat room. If it looks like that you have taken no effort at all and it has been quickly thrown together then you will struggle to meet genuine people. Number 5 Your e-mails to other members - take the time to read the person's profile that you are contacting. Let them know this by making reference to points raised in there profile. E.g. "We are both in our thirties as well and consider ourselves a professional couple. We note that you are looking to meet on Friday nights and we live near you and can accommodate" etc... Number 6 Whenever you contact a member or are contacted by a member be honest, never lie about yourself and describe yourself accurately in your profile, pictures and correspondence. If you are a fifty stone two headed monster then people will not mind as long as they know that from the start! If you get chatting to someone and you describe yourself falsely then when you meet you will not get the required outcome. Honesty really is the best policy. Number 7 Use the chat room on a regular basis, get to know people and make yourself a regular face, once again as with the profile be honest about yourself and what you are after. Take an interest in other people as well. Don't just keep asking for sex, you will find that people enjoy talking about themselves and will warm to you far better if you break the ice a little first in a polite non sexual fashion. Number 8 Post in the forum, this is a great way to get people to read your profile and contact you. Remember that "I am great and want to shag five stunning birds at once" might not get you the reply that you want. However interesting topics asking for feedback from members generally goes down very well. Number 9 A good way to get quick replies to your e-mail is to contact the newest members on the site. You will almost certainly get a reply to an e-mail if you are the first person to read their profile and send them an e-mail while they are initially on the site. You can find the newest members on the site listed on the right hand side of the home page at all times listed by couples single females and single males. Number 10 Why not attend or list a party specifying who you would like to meet. Generally this is a proven and tested approach to meeting like minded people in your area. You can even mail people telling them to have a look at it. Once again it is a nice introduction to get to know them.