Hey there, well said. I couldn't have put it better myself. I'm new to the site and this is exactly why I joined - to enjoy and learn about the full swinging lifestyle not to use it just as a stop-gap. Shame you are in Limerick... If there are any Dubs out there(COUPLES and SINGLES) please let me know x  
      I got into the "lifestyle" with an ex and though we finished, 3 years ago now..my love for swinging/parties and the lifestyle has only increased further and further and have had sum great 3sum and party meets over the past 3 years. 1 on 1 meets cant really be considered "swinging or the lifestyle"  
      hi all as a fem of couple that does swing alone i have found many good friends here so if yous like to chat come to suzies chat yous are more than welcome xxxxxxxxx  
      Thanks for the invite Suzie  
      Hi, i feel exactly the same way. Thought i was on my own on this one. I have actually asked girls and couples and even other guys ( though i am straight!!) to meet up for a coffee or something and have a chat. I'd just love to hear more about the lifestyle, as im only really a newbie. I just think its a facinating way of life. And as it was said, if it was a 1 stop shop your lookin for, then a night-club would be better suited. Nice to know im not alone in myviews.
Cheers guys  
      Interesting thread.
I've been on this site just over two years now and I both attend swing parties and meet singles. I have a preference for swing parties as thats the main reason I joined the site but I do at times enjoy one to one meets with someone I hit it off with.
Whilst I was here near 8 months before I got my first party meet, the wait was well worth it. I thoroughly enjoy the party scene, true its not for everyone but I've always had an enjoyable night at any I attended, its the company that makes the night and as I see it the sex is an added cherry to the cake. 
If anyone wants to ask me anything email me and I'll happily reply But, I wont reply to anyone that asks things like 'Can you get me into a party' or anything crude or disrespectful.
Titan79  
      hi  all  we  here  nearly  2 yrs  now and  have to say  meet alot  off nice people  we find it bit hard to find people that dont smoke  and  is straight  but  we came true and meet some  lovely  people  so  yes  we do enjoy  swinging  
      Hey i totally agree its not swinging unless its a group or couple. Id love to arrange a night in a hotel over the next few weeks for a few couples amd singles let me know if anyone is interested  
      I agree.  It would be great to get a better networking going and more
open meet and greets to make contacts and to make that all important 
human contact so you know who you are dealing with.
Wiki1  
      Fair play sportlk... good post..
A singles meet n greet would be gr8!  
      I'd be interested in such a meet too.
PM me to chat in any case.
Gym  
      its not just single guys that feel this way....ill keep an eye on my box for invite:devil:  
      Hi marieandu, I'd be interested too.
Cheers,
Z  
      hi marieandu 
Can you send us the link also please