Do any others find that some people can be really pushy? I mean come on why do people think your going to meet up with them after one email?
Im new to all this so obviously nervous and its really off putting to be bombarded with emails and then people getting stroppy if you wont give out your number!
Also quick Q how can you get yourself off someone favorites list?
Hi,,kkGirl,and,Welcome to the site.
At the moment,if people add you to their favourites,all you can do is mail them,and ask them to remove you from the list. Sadly,you have No way of knowing if they do this or not. But,The Admin of the site are working on getting over this problem.
As for guys being pushy,well,,once again,sadly,These are the type of guys on the site that are ruining things for the proper,well behaved guys in here.
Some guys think it's ok to push and push,and don't know how to take No for an ,these guys you get everywhere,and not just on here.
Just put it on your profile,that you'll delete mails that are pushy,,and,If you have any bother with someone,contact Us,or any of the other Moderators here on the site,and we'll will deal with it swiftly.
Moderators can be found in the chatrooms,and are the people with the Yellow,or grey stars next to their names.
Hope this helps...?
Look forward to chatting with you sometime..
As MrCorkHot was saying not all blokes on the site are like that but because of them it is hard for any bloke to get through. I have lost count with the number of mails I have sent interducing myself with no replys.
Im not pussy and always finish off with if you want to chat drop me an email. but due to what i would say is the number of emails single woman / cpls recieve every day from single men looking for meets it has led to the majority of my emails not even been read. But i have been told by a few her so i will pass it on that there is a good comunity of ppl here that are friendly so dont loose faith.
After reading ur profile I dont know if u would b interested as im new to this as well but feel free to drop me an email we can compair stories
yea some guys do get the hump lol they think that because we meet sinles that they all should get fun they forget we all have to feel safe and happy before any meets and in the case of cplz thats 2 to please
Hiya KKgirl
I understand where you are coming from and may be able to offer a very simple explanation. Ignorance! Not ignorance in a bad way but just not really knowing how its supposed to be done. I have made my share of mistakes on this site since I joined earlier today but since I actually took the time to read through the carefully written FAQs I have realised what I was doing wrong.
I would say dont get too bothered by people who bug you, just add them to your ignore list and forget about them. They will learn soon enough that they need to change their approach if they want any kind of response.
I wish you the best of luck in your search for whatever it is you want and above all, have fun
Quote by user=kkgirl Do any others find that some people can be really pushy? I mean come on why do people think your going to meet up with them after one email? Im new to all this so obviously nervous and its really off putting to be bombarded with emails and then people getting stroppy if you wont give out your number! Also quick Q how can you get yourself off someone favorites list?
yea i feel that some of the guys do get really pushy in there sometimes it is really annoying esp when your trying to have alaugh and a chat i often wonder do these guys behave like this when there out in public.
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