hey all im youngtobuck and i joined roughly about 3 to 4 weeks ago. been having fun with lots of people here but still just feel its tough. i got some really nice advice from blondegerm and bongo was kind to explain what lmao means, so thank you. but.......
1 finding it hard to chat to people in the rooms, it feels all "clicky"
2 when i mail single or couples i dont get responses
so look i really am a genuine open minded and easygoing guy that likes to have fun, (not like some of the males). i didn't join to get my jollies off. i would like to get to know the person too before anything happens. so could someone give me that little bit of advice and steer me in the right direction.
thank you look forward to hearing from you
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You must not have got on too well at all so huh?? 
Welcome to the site,
We all use abbreviations, the :
lmao (laugh my ass off)
pmsl (piss my self laughing)
etc.... Please Don't be put off by them, find your feet first, there are loads of nice people on here.
Padd's
user=youngtobuck]hey all im youngtobuck and i joined roughly about 3 to 4 weeks ago. been having fun with lots of people here but still just feel its tough. i got some really nice advice from blondegerm and bongo was kind to explain what lmao means, so thank you. but.......
1 finding it hard to chat to people in the rooms, it feels all "clicky"
2 when i mail single or couples i dont get responses
so look i really am a genuine open minded and easygoing guy that likes to have fun, (not like some of the males). i didn't join to get my jollies off. i would like to get to know the person too before anything happens. so could someone give me that little bit of advice and steer me in the right direction.
thank you look forward to hearing from you
We all use abbreviations, the :
lmao (laugh my ass off)
pmsl (piss my self laughing)
etc.... Please Don't be put off by them, find your feet first, there are loads of nice people on here.
Padd's
user=youngtobuck]hey all im youngtobuck and i joined roughly about 3 to 4 weeks ago. been having fun with lots of people here but still just feel its tough. i got some really nice advice from blondegerm and bongo was kind to explain what lmao means, so thank you. but.......
1 finding it hard to chat to people in the rooms, it feels all "clicky"
2 when i mail single or couples i dont get responses
so look i really am a genuine open minded and easygoing guy that likes to have fun, (not like some of the males). i didn't join to get my jollies off. i would like to get to know the person too before anything happens. so could someone give me that little bit of advice and steer me in the right direction.
thank you look forward to hearing from you
:welcome:
We do still find this place can be very clicky but you can still have fun chatting, its just a matter of saying hi, if they dont respond well you know not to go there again but if they do chat away, just remember one thing Do not whisper without asking first, it is one of the main things that pisses ppl off.
By the way if you see us in chat dont be afaird to say hi
Hi Young.
Kno what u mean bout chat-room, it's exactly tha same on a night out tho, tha room/floor is dotted with maybe 10 up to 15 lil "mini-groups" of 3-4 people. Agree it's very difficult but thas jus tha way it is alas! It's nothing intentional, they must just have gotten to know one another previously or something I don't know. But anyways if you go to other chat-rooms on tha site as well if you are in Chat; - I find tha Bi-rooms and especially any Northern Ireland rooms opened are good fun and a laugh and good craic also. :-) And Posting in tha Forums can be fun sometimes too!
With regard to mailing, personally I find that continuous mails from tha same person even if God loves a trier, can be a tad annoying! So maybe ease-up there ....
Hope you have lotsa fun!
