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hi, just curious if i can get an answer/answers to the following..
i know that i have a huge field of guys to compete with, but i like to think i have a good profile up, explaining what i'm looking for and willing to give etc..
but when i mail people i never seem to get a reply, and i have only once got a mail from someone who i havent mailed first.. i like to think im a good lookin, considerate and all round decent guy.. so, could people have a look at my profile and tell me am i sayin something or not sayin somethin that i should be??? smile
yours.. frustrated..:)
This should be in the anything goes section, The Main reason is that most women and cpls have to face into a deluge of emails everytime they log in, In the middle of that sits your email and from speaking to ladies they tell me at times they just delete a load of them at a time when it gets too overwhelming. As you can Imagine its not fair on the genuine guys that have emailed but alas its a fact.
hey oral , I think it just comes down to girls getting to much mail , Ive read your profile , nothing wrong there and Ive also seen u briefly on cam , (cock cam just doesn't do it for me ) I'm not denying you have a great body and your "equipment" looks pretty good to :giggle: but I'm only speaking for myself but id much prefer to have a chat with someone rather than watch them wanking on cam , I do know a lot of woman here who feel the same , there's enough cocks on cam here , maybe try having some conversation with girls that doesn't involve " I'm doing a show , have a look"
We agree with Bicurious there..We have had a few mails from women in here,and some took just ages..It turned out that most of the women just get inundated with mails,and it takes them ages to get through them.. On top of that,,you have to mail them something "different"..Something that is going to catch their eye,,otherwise it'll just be the same old mail for them..
good point there from corkcpl... i think that to be successful here, you need to interact with folk in the chatrooms, i get a lot of mail from guys who have profiles here, but ive never seen them in chat...i for one tend to have a few conversations with a guy before taking things further.