Am hoping someone can shed some light on this.
I was in chat last night, and a Bi-male whispered me and said "great to see a single girl interested in us Bi Males.. at least we know we stand a chance"
I'm not ignorant to people who are bisexual, but I really didn't understand why this guy felt he had to make the point to me??
Why wouldn't I be interested in a bi male? aren't we all equal on here? Am I missing something? Do Bi Males feel excluded when it comes to single girls?
Pardon my confusion, but was just really surprised by this remark.
Anna I have a lot of Bi male friends, they will honestly say that a lot of people think Bi's are sexualy greedy and have too many partners as a result ( load of rubbish actualy ) people avoid them...
In this day and age this attitude is ridiculous but very difficult to avoid sadly..
Thanks Amber & Virgogirl.. that was the first time I ever encountered that remark, and it is sad that people feel like that about bi males. Of the few I know and have met on here, I (like the thread "Girls Who Like Bi Guys" says by another poster) find bi males very sexually mature and not at all aggressive in their approach to women - bi or straight.
Just a thought - does this also happen to bi females with straight men? or is it a one way street?
Anna, a very interesting question.
For a long time my profile stated I was straight as I was told that to show I am bi or curious, would scare people off me.
However, I always have to be honest and true to myself first and foremost and I have no issue in saying I am bi-curious. I know some people might get put off by it, but I am still the same person and I am not greedy. I am just open to things happening and I see everyone as been human regardless of gender.
All I would ask from anyone is to be honest and up-front. If been with someone who is Bi is not for you, just be polite and say no thank you and move on. Everyone has feelings and we are all here for fun......
Anna, thank you for your warmth and friendship always. It is people like you that make this site so worthwhile.....
Anna, Great Post,
I have to say fair dues to the guy for being honest enough to say it to you. I was in the 'Should I say I am bi or not' quandary for a while, too but then I reckoned fuck it, It dont mean I am a lesser person/manwhore/not picky/wreckless in my sexual activities, as some would think.
But sad to say some have the notions in they're head, they will never understand it, and will freely admit they don't want to understand it!!!( which is really worrying) I always reckon people fear most what they fail to understand.
Quote by user=anna77 Thanks for the replies Dar & Titan.. I, for one the bi males (and females) on the site! Anna xx
Anna there is a perception that Bi guys may be less masculine ... & while some ladies are happy to meet them most couples would be anti Bi guys but will meet Bi ladies :doh: so I can see where the guy was coming from ... Up front rather than getting knocked back when his profile is read.
My motto is get it out in the open early and then people know where they stand.
I would also agree that most straight couples don't meet guys that are bi, even though most bi guys can behave themselves and not go anywhere a straight guy for fear of causing any hassle.
I have been surprised by the number of women who like bi-guys but then again look at all the hot women in the world who have gay males as their best friends.
Life is too short to have hang-ups
Sean xx
Quote by user=sean0001 My motto is get it out in the open early and then people know where they stand. I would also agree that most straight couples don't meet guys that are bi, even though most bi guys can behave themselves and not go anywhere a straight guy for fear of causing any hassle. I have been surprised by the number of women who like bi-guys but then again look at all the hot women in the world who have gay males as their best friends. Life is too short to have hang-ups Sean xx
well said Sean, met a few ppl who have hang ups on Bi Males but more than happy for Bi fems to meet them, so being a Bi male has its probs, but must admit not as bad as it used to be a couple of years back even but even so, a hell of a lot of time wasters I am afraid, ( aka married men but my wife not know) but more than happy to get off behind the lap top
well done to all who accept people for what they are ........human... I am married to a true bi-male and happily support his choices, preferences. my onli complaint wud be the guys who have contacted him and by the third or fourth pm or txt the whole discussion is pretty much based round " can i fuk ur wife then ?" Now as a couple who pretty much are into everything thats do-able my hubby loves to hear about my time bein hammered into by a guy, he sumtimes gets lucky enuf to watch or even listen from da nxt room.. BUT... if ur bi,gay curious then go for it and may it be fun fun fun if you find it but dnt pretend to be if ur not just to get a shag......Honesty is da way guys, after all theres a match on here for everyones sex wishlist so no need to go the awkward way round ..........
.....................................................Thanks for reading guys, im off for a play wit myself cuz writin dis has made me tink dirty dirty tings....xxxxxxxxxxxx
well done to all who accept people for what they are ........human... I am married to a true bi-male and happily support his choices, preferences
He surely is one lucky man:clap: Being accepted regardless of our sexual orientation is the key to true happiness, people forget that sexuality is equaly important as our health, status and quality of life...
Quote by user=sean0001 My motto is get it out in the open early and then people know where they stand. I would also agree that most straight couples don't meet guys that are bi, even though most bi guys can behave themselves and not go anywhere a straight guy for fear of causing any hassle. I have been surprised by the number of women who like bi-guys but then again look at all the hot women in the world who have gay males as their best friends. Life is too short to have hang-ups Sean xx
Sean, you make some great points. I for one have had one or two mails back from people that have said they dont meet Bi Males and in an effort to somehow 'soften the blow' In theyre minds have thrown in a comment like 'ah its not me, the hubbys just wouldnt be ok with it, he might think you will be after him instead of me' Now in all Honesty because I am Bi, it doesnt mean I am going to make a beeline for the hubby. if a cpl are straight I am there for the fems fun and thats it! being bi can vary in many degrees, I had a convo with a good mate of mine recently about this and some fail to understand that being bi can be in varying degrees comfort levels etc, Mrs jimmiid Fair dues to you and yer fella, and I am not at all surprised with your experiences of guys using the 'bi to get at the missus ploy' but thankfully these guys show theyre true colours fairly quick so they can be dismissed from the equation fairly early on.
Its a good question Anna. I have just rejoined the site but was on here for a good while previously. I was looking to try a bi mmf threesome(had one and loved it!) so I put bi male on my profile although i would have considered myself as curious or bi-selective. If I said i was bi-curious the bi couples were put off, if i put bi the straight and curious couples were put off!
I think the moral is that bisexual fun between guys means a vast range of things to different people so a bit of chat and a few questions establishes the boundaries. It definitly seems to be quite taboo still with a lot of females and couples although there are plenty of "straight" couples on here who mail saying, " my hubby is straight but loves sucking cock...." For me personally one on one meets with guys don't interest me but in a threesome or foursome anything bi is a real turn-on for me. Does that make me straight, curious, bi or greedy? I think its just that in an erotic situation i'm more than willing to spice things up if its turning everyone else on. Just to confuse things further i love feminine trannies
I had a girlfriend who was very uncomfortable with my bi side. Not that she thought I was sexually greedy, but that there was a side to my sexuality she couldn't access. Which is rubbish really, because that's not how I think.
Bisexuality in guys is a very very very very grey area. I think the fact that you get two choices to demonstrate your sexuality doesn't do a lot of us justice here. I also hate the idea of having to justify your sexuality as in "so eh, what sort of bi are you?" I would describe myself as no-selective, but I don't thinly that that even covers it.
Swing4Ireland features sexually explicit material. To access this site you must be of the legal age to engage with the material of an adult site.
By entering Swing4Ireland you agree to the following;
I am deemed an adult where I live, and I am at least 18 years old
I am allowed to access & view sexually explicit material
0 likes
the bi males (and females) on the site!
Anna xx 
