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Sexlightened
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So we were out last night, for some pre arranged fun in a well known spot we have visited and had fun at plenty of times. The plan was to have the pre arranged fun and then hang about after for some greedy girl action with a few of the single guys. However ; For single guys that go dogging try to remember 'Dont rush couples. Let them relax and get into their stride before rushing over' We had literally just pulled up and there was cars moving from where they were parked to get in beside us. So we moved off to a quieter part of the area to party with another couple. Well apparently 3 cars didn't get the hint and the same 2 continually drove in and out of the spot disturbing what was a private party which brings us to the below Doggers dont watch if not invited Now we love to Dogging and regularly invite guys that are there to join and play but last night it was bordering on uncomfortable with 3 certain cars the main culprits. A little bit of respect and courtesy guys goes a very long way, we don't like moaning but last night some of the behavior was bordering on aggressive and very rude.
Warming the Bed
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So we were out last night, for some pre arranged fun in a well known spot we have visited and had fun at plenty of times. The plan was to have the pre arranged fun and then hang about after for some greedy girl action with a few of the single guys. However ;
For single guys that go dogging try to remember
'Dont rush couples. Let them relax and get into their stride before rushing over'
We had literally just pulled up and there was cars moving from where they were parked to get in beside us. So we moved off to a quieter part of the area to party with another couple. Well apparently 3 cars didn't get the hint and the same 2 continually drove in and out of the spot disturbing what was a private party which brings us to the below
Doggers dont watch if not invited
Now we love to Dogging and regularly invite guys that are there to join and play but last night it was bordering on uncomfortable with 3 certain cars the main culprits.
A little bit of respect and courtesy guys goes a very long way, we don't like moaning but last night some of the behavior was bordering on aggressive and very rude.

+1 Dogging etiquette has disappeared. There are too many rude , pushy, inconsiderate individuals who are spoiling the fun for everyone.
Warming the Bed
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i was down in a well known spot before myself as a single male only there to watch and there was 3 chaps there, constantly following people from car park to car park. I was there and genuine i know my place and i know when im allowed to watch or participate these feckers ruined it for me. it was embarrasing seeing males in mid 40s flying around just to catch a view at boob or two. I gave up going down there because of it
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i agree, its something i lov 2 see, but also seen guys like a pack a wolfs round a car, so i left, cant blame couples not inviten singles when idiots turn up. im sorry 2 here ur nite was destroyd by a these 3 guys.
Sexlightened
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Night was certainly not destroyed a very enjoyable meet with a wonderful couple just made more difficult than it needed to be by idiots.
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Heard about the going ons and who was involved lol It happens, it will continue to happen and that's life I don't agree with it but it is afterall a very public place to meet another couple. My advice for what its worth, try a spot not as obvious for a pretty arranged meet.
Forum Virgin
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Cant help but think if you hadn't of put it in the forum and kept it private this situation wouldn't of happened Lot of idiots out there who haven't a clue about dogging, wouldn't be surprised if a few frequent this forum, they think " right il go down and drive in and out and in and out hounding couples " and ruin the fun for the genuine respectful people
Sexlightened
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Cant help but think if you hadn't of put it in the forum and kept it private this situation wouldn't of happened

Well we drove 10 minutes away and where followed, not acceptable. We posted in the forum in the hope of having some guys join us but 2 individuals in particular were aggressive & Intimidating in their behavior and they are two cars that are there regularly so I dont think the posting here was the issue.
a very public place

Again were we drove to was neither very public or well known. But we were followed
It really is a sad state of affairs.
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i know the feeling posted about this ages ago and it has happened a couple of times since and recently at that cars blaring lights drivng in real close lads if ye want to do this go to the fun fair and go on the bumping cars. I go out alone and its hard enough to meet couples without the messing cant see the point of it as all it does is drive people away its no wonder there are so few couples out. if i see a few cars driving about now i dont stay i just turn and go no point in staying. had a couple of nights ruined by this and was ragen. Sorry for the rant but it drives me mad.
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Well lets hope these gentlemen view this thread. They are def on here alright So take the advice and things might start looking up