Tonight for me is the saddest of all on this site as it has come to my attention that two of the nicest people on here are considering leaving because of the persistant abuse been thrown by what I now consider to be mere animals.
Since coming on here, I have been totally accepted by the majority, have been welcomed by many and above all my confidence has grown so much. These members who are considering leaving, recently invited me to their party and it was a lovely jesture on their part to invite me, as been a single male, it aint too easy to meet anyone.
But I feel so ashamed as a single male that others are on here with the same label "single male" are resorting to abusive language and behaviour towards other members on here.
Regardless of ones sexual orientation, we are all human beings, and we all hurt. We all have feelings and while we all love some fun, there is an obligation on us all to show respect to our fellow human beings.
Having witnessed so much shameful behaviour by members on here, I want now to address these people and seek other genuine members' support in the process.
Members who choose not to abide by the rules, your behaviour will no longer be tolerated. While we have many moderators on here, and I salute the work they do, I will report every member who chooses to be abusive to both the Moderators and Admin, and will seek to have your membership terminated.
Enough is enough and the abuse stops NOW.
To those members who are considering leaving, please don't. As to do so will only hand a victory to those who are pests.
Well said Dar.........:thumbup: :clap:
I am with yot on this Dar4u, like yov friends have left or use the site less. While name & shame is not an option I am more than happy to report to the Mods & admin. We can not let the bullies succeed.
Everyone is entitled to respect.
Its nice to be nice.
Dar4, Its a sad state of affairs that people are being made feel like this. Please inform them that they should report this to The mod team by abuse report and we will look into it.
why single out the 'single' males on the site for their actions, (yes they probably outnumber the other profiles in the chatrooms), but its not only males that are the culprits when it comes it.
fems and so called 'couples' have also acted in ways that, although worded differently all amount to the same kind of abuse and unwarranted replies.
are we to take it, thats its ok for fems to comment that guys should take off their shirts, pants, underwear as a jokey comments? and at the same time, kick users when they comment about fems doing the same?
there is a number of couples, fems and males on the site, that are under the impression that the chatrooms have become their personal playgrounds and they can do and say as they please.
a lot of chatters are complaining about the single males and their attitudes to others, just to bring to your attention, its not just the single males, there is also a number of site users who assume they are above reproach and they can do and say as they please, if they continue to act in this manner, they will receive the same repercussions as the people they continuously complain about.
Baileys,
Please forgive me for singling out my own group here, but I was responding to the fact that in the instance I mentioned above, it was single males involved.
However I do agree with you, it is not just single males, there are females and so called couples involved.
I will assist you and your fellow Mods in any way I can, and I am sure all of the other genuine members will do the same. Afterall, people have enough pressures right now and enough reasons for feeling down, without having to take it on here too.
Good post Baileys and Dar.......I only go into chat once every now and then, i find that there's too much of peoples business floating around like information bubbles lol.....Anytime ive been in there, there's been very little trouble but on a site like this your always gonna get the twats, weather it be Fems, guys or couples plying there twat trade
Christ how many more good memebers are going to leave this site before some serious action is taken againts those wankers, both male and female who think this is a god damm playground?????
Bullying is the pits. Its always sad and frustrating when a person feels the need to to be crude, derogatory or horrible to a fellow human, just to make themselves feel better and more superior.
Totally support this thread, have had many encounters in here that were less than pleasant. Was lucky enough to have met ppl from another site and met them in here so did get support from them, they know who they are and thankyou guys very hard to join sites like this when you are new to the scene and when you get torrents of abuse it is very off putting but even worse makes you question yourself. I am of no doubt having had the abuse in her has toughed me up but sadly i dont feel its always in a good way.I do hope your friends dont leave the site Dar4, there are lots of fab ppl in here, tell them to give it chance. xxxx
