Part of a couple, new enough to this scene and have met a couple a few times (great great fun), and have made lots of friends, now comes the part i would like advice on. I wouldnt say i am bi but curious yes, i would like to put my curious side to the test but am unsure on how or what to do, silly question?????
I would also love to experiment with m m f, this to i am nervous about because unsure if i would be able to handle two men lol. Some might think i am being silly or worrying about nothing, but your wise input and tips would really go down a treat.
Thanks ladies of swing
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To the women of swing..your wisdom please
First of all you need to decide exactly how far you wish to take your curious bi side, because when you start looking for a woman to experiment with, you need to make them aware exactly what you are looking for.
Next place an ad , or start mailing either A a bi lady B a bi-curious, in all honesty I think you would be better placed seeking out a bi-lady willing to play with a couple, this way you have the support of your partner, to help you relax and hopefuly enjoy sharing new experiences.
As for the MMF , again before you begin your search, be 100 percent sure you are ready for this, talk with your partner, is this something you both want?
Do you intend experimenting seperately?
New experiences are often more productive, if shared with someone who you feel totaly relaxed with.
A good DP isn't the easiest to achieve, it takes time and a considerable amount of effort, and if you are not relaxed in the two males company , it can be a pretty miserable exercise.
But good-luck whatever happens.
I know this is sam's thread, but just like to clarify the situation..
Sam would like to embrass her curiosity of sex with a woman, it is something she has been thinking over herself, and it is a brave thing that she is willing to give it a try. And if she wants or needs me there of course, given the chance what man wouldnt be.
As for the MMF thing, she has my support, and if this is something we decide to look at it would only happen when she fills she is ready to take that step, what she was asking for with this thread was advice from the girls that have tried a woman, or are bi or lesbian, she values there input on the matter.
She fills she is ready, but if u think back to when u was a virgin, (in this case she is)the bi thing i mean), and how nervous u was.
Sorry for butting in on this sam, x x x x x x x:kiss
Maybe i didnt word this thread right, i am very curious on what it would be like to be with a woman and i asked for advice on this from the woman of swing, then i went on to say that i would love to experiment with mmf, this is not saying that i am going to do it in the very near future, (not that brave just yet lol)but the first part about being curious that will happen in the near future (i hope) and i just asked advice on this. Dont know if this makes any more sence.
I do know one thing for sure i aint doing anything without the other half :grin:
And babychicks your forgiven this time!!
Well,,In our opinion,doing it with the other half is always easier! You'll always be more confident with your partner there with you!
To be honest though,,to save confusion,which is probably a bit late now,,You should have made your question/s into 2 threads/posts!
We broke our 3some bit a few years ago,,and it was a great experience for us both,although,having said that,the 3rd party wasn't a very active person. The Female here is glad she made the move to break her "Bi" virginity! She's not at all into guys,,as,Nor is the male here,,so,,it suited us both!
Hope this helps!
L and C....
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corkhotcpl...she is not at all into guys?
Where do you come into the picture then?
I think you need more clarity in your post.
ok I don't feel I have enough experience to give advice as such .. all I can say is if your setting out to find someone choose carefully ,.. but if its in your head already don't over plan things either .. some things just happen .. my first female experience wasn't planned at all , was just in right place at right time so to speak ...and I still smile thinking about it .. was a learning experience for me .. was like a deer got in headlights .. didnt know where to put myself .. literally speakin !!! but I was lucky couldn't have found a better person for my first time ...also over analysing things can create more nerves than are already there ..go at your pace hun and do what feels right for you and most importantly .. enjoy it
