Swinger Codes

3 Aug 2010

Are there un-written (but understood by some) rules, in Swinging, or is it just the same rules apply as for relationships? I have heard of a Girl Code!!! what is this? Is there a guy code or a couples code? What about parties? do the hosts have first dibs on guests? If you accompany a lady to a party is it alright if you have fun with other ladies & even go home with a different lady? On ocassion I have had difficulties because i didn't really know the etiquette.

3 Aug 2010

right, i must be getting old because ive never heard of any such codes!!!

3 Aug 2010

Not sure if 'codes' is the right word for this....if i am on the same train of thought as you Alan(apologies if i am not)...... If in a party situation....how much time is too much, to spend with one particular person?? is say....going off with someone for 20 mins ok....but 45-1hr....classed as crossing the line and not sharing? If in a 3sum or moresum......is spending more time with one person over the others deemed bad form???? Is saying...."i really like that 'guy/girl'" code for.....hands off?

3 Aug 2010

when we go to a party nobody has "dibbs" on our time ,,we play with whoever we wish for as long as we wish,,so long as the other people single or cpls, are happy to play with us,,,we are swingers and isnt that the name of the game :doggy: boink

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4 Aug 2010

alan what a load of codswallopp no one has dibs on anyone all is free to play