Just thinking about something that came up in another thread...
Is it possible to have friendships with people, long lasting friendships after you have met for sex?
In my case yes, am lucky on this site to have found some really wonderful friends, who I not only meet for sex but also on a social basis, people who I keep in contact on a daily basis, via text, phone email ect..
Others I meet for drinks, chats ect...
I seem to be lucky in that with them I find we give and take, support when one is in difficulties, perhaps swingers share a common bond, in so much that many of us are not able to disclose to family ect that we do swing, it is possible to form friendships here..
Some of my friendships go back a number of years, and on occasions have been tested as all friendships are, but we managed to come through the problems...
I feel that while we all do comE to swing for NSA it is wonderful that along the way we do meet and make friends..
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Sex God
depends on the person really. im not long on this site and have only really started using it in the last few months but i hope to make a few good friends here as well as have lots of fun
I am lucky to have made some amazing genuine friends through this site.
Two in particular spring to mind, one an ex member, the other still on the site. They have been my rock these past few months and indeed for the ex member, a huge support for much longer than that.
We speak on an almost daily basis.
These are friends who I know, have my back, will listen if i need to talk....never judge, even if they dont agree with my views....know i will be there to listen whenever they need me too.
I have never played with either of these gentlemen, its never been an issue at any stage for us......we just arent what any of us are looking for.
I have made friends here that i hope will be in my life a long time too that I have played with.
ANd others who I had classed as friends but now we pass by, moving in different circles, wishing each other a courteous hello.
There is nothing wrong with that, friendships come in all different shapes and sizes.....some lifelong.....others transiant.....and others brief, fullfilling something for each person at that given time never destined to be anything more than a temporary thing.
To each of them, theyve made me who I am and for that I thank everyone of them. And also to those who i hold dear that i have yet to meet(you know who you are hun x x x x)
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We have some cyber friends from the site and some we have met, but apart from on site we dont really have outside contact with them which in some cases is a pity cause they are the nicest people to talk to and some have been great shags lol
well Raven I have been fortunate to meet you & Teddy and I would go for a pint or a meal with you guys any time & be happy to go home without a kiss but in the knowledge we all had an enjoyable evening out as good friends.
Have made some incredibly amazing friends on this site and a certain few of them are very very special......I know I can talk to them at any time of the day or night about anything and I know that they will always be there for me.......as they have been when I have had some dark moments...........and I know that respect me enough to let me live my life as I do them but we text and talk everyday its a nice feeling when that happens....and its nice to have friends you can really count on.....you all know who you are (((((((((hugs))))))))))))to you all and thanks for being there xxxxxxxxxxxxxanny
Master of Sex
hi all well been on the site 4 years now and have met some wonderful people and have remained friends and very good friends who would call for a coffee or come to dinner and will remain friends if we ever come off site lol yes you can have a friendship off site with people and if you show respect and understanding and look out for one another as you would in normal life then you will have friends lots of friends and we made them from this site so here is to all our friends ((((((hugs))))) and kisses love bonnyclyde
We are still keep in touch with nearly all the couples we have met one on one. One couple in particular we spent ages as friends and engaged in lots of non swinging activities together, untill they broke up ;(. Even then Mrs. CP keeps in touch with the fem from the do like to get to know couples a bit before we meet so I think thats probably why we stay in touch afterwards too. We only meet people we have a chat and a laugh with.
have met and enjoyed the company of people for years and never got to play with them for one or other reasons.
they still remain good friends and keep in contact with them on and off, would like to think that we still like each other and enjoy each others company and its a nice feeling to be made feel welcome, who knows what is around the corner, theres always a few nice surprises in life that make you wake up smiling for a while ;)
To all my friends on here.