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single male a dying breed?
well a message to all... i do believe peeps dont actually ignore anyone but will say it somtimes takes a little time to get to know others. add a little to conversations an comps work. and somtimes even readin chat an gettin to know everyone does help as u can pick out who is easiest to chat to. then u just add a comment and hopefully it not : sexy guy lookin for sex tnyte.. tat is sure to get u excluded from any conversation. but dont give in just yet as i know ye guys love the challenge, or is tat just a myth. maybe tat just my opinion... sexy
I totally agree with sexy here especialy about choosing what to say when you jump into chat , yes it is a swing site but respect is a big thing for the majority of people here and if your first comment to a girl is hey can i f**k you then chances are you dont have a hope , not just with her but with her online friends 2 cos yes us single girls do talk lol but I will also add that it doesnt matter if ur a single guy/gal or cpl , it is so hard to get into chat when your new , im not that long here myself so the memories of staring blankly at the screen with a sense of dread is fresh !!, what sexy said is true , read chat you will see some people are more approcable than others , it does take time but its like anything, if you want it , its worth the effort lol
its worth mentioning that desperation and agressiveness will not get you into a conversation either, and manners cost nothing. with regard to single guys being excluded from parties etc...it is unfortunate . however there are usually plenty of parties open to single males posted up on the lets meet up page.
I have five cats and one dog and we can kick up a sat night as good as anyone.
they cant get into clubs though,
Westside.
(one thing worth mentioning though is alot of guys dont hold themselves in enough esteem in their own minds when it comes to the opposite not talking about being a talking about a quiet confidence that comes with practice)
