Hi all, I'm married but here as a single. Been here a while just watching and reading, getting an idea of how the scene works. One thing that I'm wondering about is the number of profiles who ask that single guys need not apply. Why is that? I'm not critising or complaining, I'm a live and let live kinda guy, just curious as to the reasoning.
Single Guys??
Well,
Because they just dont want single simple enough but you could have a few probs here.
(1) You can see your mail until you open would get very annoying to open mail after mail from something you dont want.
(2) A lot and i do mean alot of single guys just wont respect a persons someone doesnt want a single guy they dont want away but dont persecute.
(3) This is a tricky one to know fuck it ,ill be straight out with single guys can cause probs in the couples marraige etc by not keeping in mind that "its no strings attached fun".No up the woman constantly asking to meet again or whatever is commitment.
(4) With a few exceptions you will see that most of the couple comprise of a bi seeking another couple with a bi fm or abi fm on her own is a win win situation for woman already has a guy but what she hasnt got is another fm.
This is only general but you get my a fact im afraid that the vast majority of the swing commuinity is comprised of couples seeking another couple or bi fm but it doesnt mean the end of the world though.
Incidently girls why would you bother getting involved with attached guys?While you have unatteched laid back guys around?LOL Couldnt resist mate but there you go.
Im looking for my mobile :-(
Westside.
hi, daytime...i think that a lot of couples like to play with other couples....also,a lot of single guys give off a vibe of desperation...something that swingers find a turn off...but its not all bad....just get to know folk here...im sure you will find that if you are approaching folk the right way...you will have few problems...good luck!!
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hi, daytime...i think that a lot of couples like to play with other couples....also,a lot of single guys give off a vibe of desperation...something that swingers find a turn off...but its not all bad....just get to know folk here...im sure you will find that if you are approaching folk the right way...you will have few problems...good luck!!
Yes Avy lots of desperation there as well blow in hers ears and her knickers just fall off.
Oooops,
Westside
Sex God
Just a quick repsonce to hotcouple38 msg ARE single women on here that meet cpls.I myself do, I dont think I need to give I do, however think that saying single women are crap, is not the way to endear anyone too you.I know you are directing your comment at the girls who dont , but , its still a generalistion and reflects badly on all the single women that visit the site.
You are correct. We did direct it at those women that don't. Delighted to see that there are a few like yourself that a bit of hope to couples in here..
We're not pushed on how we come across about it,,As we have givin up looking to meet a single girl in here,,so it don't bother us.
Plus,We're entitled to our 5 cents worth,,so We've used it!
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Just a quick repsonce to hotcouple38 msg ARE single women on here that meet cpls.I myself do, I dont think I need to give I do, however think that saying single women are crap, is not the way to endear anyone too you.I know you are directing your comment at the girls who dont , but , its still a generalistion and reflects badly on all the single women that visit the site.
Hello Darling :-) Once again i have to come here and correct
If you read their post again you'll see that they were referring to the single women who have it on their profiles but dont go all they are saying and i agree that they are entitled to their never directed it towards genuine fms like yourself only to those who talk about it but never do it.
Lovingly,
Westside.
Sex God
yes west , i do realise that , thats why i said "I know you are directing your comment at the girls who dont".
Thanks for taking the time to reply guys.....didn't mean to almost start an altercation there...sorry about that. I can see the issue with guys overstepping the bounds with couples, but it does mean that guys who play by the rules and are here for some fun get tarred too. C'est la vie I suppose. Best of luck.
I know this is an old thread. and maybe someone would look at this.
Westie, i know we havent always seen eye to eye, but nice post.
We are a couple that do have "singles need not apply" written in our profiles.
And we dont want anyone to think that we are shutting everyone out, but as a couple we like to decide who we may or not meet, as would everyone on this site. But westie is right, I have heard that the amount of mail the single girls get is overwhelming and that includes the lesbian contingant.
But no, u dont see single guys posting a thread moaning at the lesbians coz they dont want to meet single guys do you???? it is accepted by most that lesbians are not interested in men.
If we was looking for a single guy we would look around, we wouldnt bother the guys that had "single girls only" on there profile.
And we would be more likely to chose someone that in the chatroom showed manners and respect, was able to hold a conversation that didnt just revolve on there hope the woman would get her boobs out on cam(not a generalisation).... as was said, it is alot of things, personality, gsoh, and not pushy that would make us look at a person, but that is wether it is a couple or a single guy/girl.. but at the end of the day, my sam has to be happy first, after all, why eat at a burger van, when the italian resturant is around the corner.
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