we joined a chatroom "bi phone chat" and fell into a very interesting public conversation with a couple of members.
we were then told by another member, who had not made a single comment up to this point, that this was his room and that we were hi jacking it and that we should set up our own private room.
this is not the 1st time this has happened and I seek clarification on the issue of 'ownership' of chat rooms.
thought/reflections welcome
interesting point,,,,,i also joined a room called "diry whispers" one day and everyone started whispering me,,,,to which i replied to some dont whisper,,,,now is it not the case that no matter what room you are in even if it say whisper in tytle that you ,,,must ask first,,,or is it like directing room if it in the title then it ok??
can I whisper you something Lucy
He is quite quite mad you know
Despite room Names or aforementioned criteria set in room names no one can impede you from having a conversation in a chat room, once its not purposely abusive to other chatters or the conversation is clearly an effort to cause trouble incite people etc.
i.e. Guy Opens a room 'BigBollox's' room Ladies only' Thenm single guys or couples go into the room and the chat host proceeds to kick the single males etc this is not permitted, because you open a room does not mean you set your own rules, the room is your responsibility, but you must adhere to the site rules and the AUP, These rules, and the decisions of the moderators over ride anything else you may perceive to be your rules.
I Hope that helps.
muldern anytime sexy :boo:
titan hun does this mean that again ,,,you must ask to whisper regardless of room title,,
Lucy, With Whispering we always suggest you ask permission to whisper as an all encompassing piece of chat etiquette.
The exception of course being with those that you are friendly with,or you are on a level with, which they won't make an issue of you whispering them without permission.
HotBelfast2,,,I saw that room and closed it as it falls within the group of banned chat rooms
The following rooms are not permitted to be run on the site.
- Msn rooms
- rooms
- "Special intrest" rooms
- Any rooms referring to paedophelia
- Panty rooms/Knicker rooms/Thong rooms
- Any rooms referring to beastality
- Phone rooms
Anything related to trading of photos or porn videos
- Any room that states there are no rules
- Video/movie playing rooms
- Wind up/fake rooms i.e. Live Sex show at 12:00
no one is entitled to tell you what you can or cannot say in a room or who you can speak to unless it violates site rules,,,,
The following also applies
** KICKING AND OPENING ROOMS ** - If you open a room, read the rules first and don't kick people unless they break the rules, any member can enter any room, even if you open a room called couples only room and single people come in, they have just as much right to be there as anyone else, if we get reports of people kicking when the site rules have not been broken their account may be deactivated. If you want a private area, open a password protected room and you can invite whoever you want.
If such an incident ever arises again please report the person to admin