One Night Stands Better Than Swinging??

26 Jul 2009

Hi Guys, I was wondering what you think of the question in the thread title? This site hasn't been of any use to me, but even if it was, I reckon that hitting than town, hooking up with some-one and having a one night stand is more satisfying than swinging. (for the singles among us of course) I love the buzz of flirting with a girl and wondering will we hook up or not, have sex etc. Would swinging not be missing all that fun? or is it a whole better thing? biggrin

26 Jul 2009

Surely you get the same buzz going to a swing meet? Just because she is a swinger doesn't mean its going to happen. There may be no chemistry there for her when you meet. Personally I think swinging is a far better option from a girls point of view. The genuine swingers respect a persons boundaries without question, and contraception is accepted as essential. You have the option to get to know the person somewhst before a meet and can have some idea what to expect. A guy who seems nice on a drunken night in a bar can be a very different person behind closed doors. Of course this can happen with swinging too, but not with the Genuine swingers.

27 Jul 2009

Quote by user=lust4life
I love the buzz of flirting with a girl and wondering will we hook up or not, have sex etc. Would swinging not be missing all that fun? or is it a whole better thing?

Sure I always flirt and never know whether I will meet up or not, why would swinging be missing all that?
In answer to the thread title I prefer swinging than one night stands,(tired of meeting the koala's of this world) at least I get to know the person online and maybe meet up before taking it to a sexual level....then there is more of a chance meeting again and I find the sex is way better too. I have found in the past with one night stands, both people don't know anything about what each other likes sexually therefore it's a wam bam thank you maam kinda sex :sleeping: deffo not for me!

27 Jul 2009

Good points made, think I'm being a little unfair to swinging! I guess I'm a bit of a newbie, as I have never tried swinging. Single guys are a bit of a disadvantage really as there is firstly too many of us and secondly, most meets etc. seem to be aimed towards couples and single women. However I think your posts will keep me interested in partaking in swinging (sometime ;))! P.S. You both have interesting profiles, shame I don't meet the criteria! Cheers, Lust4life