how is it that someone can add us to thier favourites list with out us having our say. do members on this site not have a choise who,s list we are added to. and if so , why ?.
Hiya
You can email the member in question and ask them if they would remove you from their favourites also if you have anyone on your favourites then just click unto my favourites and delete them.....hope that helps ya lol
There's lots of things that could be done here to try and get people interacting, this is one that we put in place, a lot of social networking sites do this and similar happens in many other ways on the internet, which when you think about is a load of hyperlinks that enables people to go from one place to another, on a smaller scale thats why its there, to encourage people to explore the site, pretty much in the same way that sites link to other sites with a link from their site saying I like that site. If you think of it as a vote, maybe that would make more sense, even though its not, its a feature thats in place here and I'd need to hear why anyone thinks its a bad thing before we would consider changing it.
Quote by user=sueandstew how is it that someone can add us to thier favourites list with out us having our say. do members on this site not have a choise who,s list we are added to. and if so , why ?.
Just added you. LOL couldnt resist sorry, Westside.
To be able to "accept" who wants to add you as a favourite seems a way better option for us. That way you'll be able to contact people that want to stay in touch,,not people that just want your name on their list as a "Trophy"..
Im not to pushed about people adding me to there favorites .. a few have that i dont have a clue who they are but its my choice as to speak to them .. if it was the established list that you couldnt decide on .. then I would have a problem
suenstew
we agree and have found people adding us. Some we were ok with but other not. For example we make it clear that we are not interested in single guys but some have added us as favourites. Do they not get the message or is it that they just can not read.
You have our vote (on the point you raise and we like your profile also!!)
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