metting folk

28 Jun 2010

what do people find is the best way to get to know people on this site have tried the chat room but seems to be very clique orientated,i generally just like a chat nothin rude really but people just seem to talk in there own groups

28 Jun 2010

Hi Tommy, Fair play to you in Posting this. Its not easy being a single male on here mate, ya have to wade through the others around ya and make an impression, true chat can be so hard to break into in the rooms but believe me its all about perseverance, not through ignorance or pestering people( take note serial pester...erer...ere..res **Bah I give up is it really a word?**) true! there are groups that gravitate towards each other but you will find that these people have formed on site connections after a period of time...when your chatty with a few you don't notice this. Keep the faith and persevere and just be yer self, relaxed and treat it as you would if you walked into a bar, sure its a bit daunting at first, but after a while as soon as you walk in the door, yer pint will be waiting on the table for ya and you'll be getting a cheery drinkies

from the locals....and if yer lucky the odd kiss

from the girls.

29 Jun 2010

Hi Tommy I have to agree with Titan and Dora just be patient hun and dont be afraid to jump into chat.. It takes a while to get used to but you will get there and you will get known on the site if you persevere....try adding to forum threads too...... take care and good luck xxxxxxdragonstarxxxxxxx

30 Jun 2010

And try not to whisper ppl without asking nothing gets our backs up more than unwanted whispers:taz: