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why is it that when people ask you to send a pm then dont have the decencey to reply ?, even a simple no thank you would be ok, come on guys if someone sends you a message just answer them one way or the other they will respect you for it.
some of the women on here get hundreds of messages a day... (not me btw) so it might take all the time they have on here replying... and..if u get messages from people that you've specifically requested not to message you then why would yah... my advice... read the profiles...
Maddub....I agree with you to a certain point...IF i asked you to pm me then i would reply. IF you pm me with a request to see my pics, friend request--and never have spoken to me then emmm NO I wouldn't reply. As far as gingerfire said...i am not sure who gets hundreds of mails :eeek: cuz its not me either ginger....but she is correct in saying that if you read the profiles you will know if you are going to get a reply.. "no single males please" "i am picky so fit men between 30-35 please" "i don't meet couples" etc etc SHOULD give ye a hint :O :O :O :O Mad...don't give up tho hon...this is the place for fun to be had ;) xxx
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Maddub....I agree with you to a certain point...IF i asked you to pm me then i would reply. IF you pm me with a request to see my pics, friend request--and never have spoken to me then emmm NO I wouldn't reply. As far as gingerfire said...i am not sure who gets hundreds of mails :eeek: cuz its not me either ginger....but she is correct in saying that if you read the profiles you will know if you are going to get a reply.. "no single males please" "i am picky so fit men between 30-35 please" "i don't meet couples" etc etc SHOULD give ye a hint :O :O :O :O
Mad...don't give up tho hon...this is the place for fun to be had ;) xxx
im not giving up i have met a great bunch of you guys at meet& greets i know the story about reading profiles. these are the ones that state they are looking for or willing to meet single males, then dont bother to reply when the get a message. just a simple no thanks would suffice, at least we can take it that they are at least genuine. not frustraited timewasters.
IMO I have sent the 'thanks but no thanks' reply and have been on the receiving end of a return email simliar to 'your loss' or 'cock-tease' and 'you don't know what you're missing' but thankfully they are a minority. But that's what I get for replying to an email - no thanks! I stopped replying and began replying to those I had an interest in, not wasting anyones time!
I'm not sure how you can brand someone who does not reply to your emails 'frustraited timewasters' and I for sure am not on this site to reply to every email I receive, time is precious.
I can understand your frustration to a point, but it's a case of 'to each their own' we all have preferences - some choose to reply some don't!
However if I request someone to send me a pm I would for sure reply!
Happy swinging :swingingchair:
****LET IT BE KNOWN THAT MADDUB CHANGED HIS NAME*** :giggle: :giggle: smackbottom i looked like a dork using ur name :shock:
agree with all the points,i always reply to a nice mail whether im intersted or not,if its a genuine mail,as they do take time to write i think its only manners to reply,tho they are those who have written disgusting mail which i ignore as im sure u would not greet a girl with some of the words thats have been wrote if u were to meet outside the site,first impressions are important with mail..keep it clean
I ignore the unsolicited mails (Unless its from a couple or a single girl who are just starting out on the site). Its usually some guy that has just joined the site, or may have just decided to blanket bomb certain profiles with emails, they may have read our profile, but still decided to contact us anyway. Maybe he thinks he has the "IT" factor or something that we are just gona be bowled over and ask him over to ours. Ehhhh no chance sonny boy. Oh and winks, cannot stand them, winks are for lazy people. If we have chatted in the rooms, then yeah by all means send us an email. Hate whisperers that we have never spoken to before, but anyone we have met or know is welcome to whisper without asking, thats just logical. But the single guys who just whisper: 1) Hi 2) Male or Female? 3) You dont know me but I can be the best youve ever had etc..... All above are just rediculous to whisper, and count yourself lucky that I dont ridicule you wink Then you have the following: "I read your profile, and I really like it, would you like to chat?" Well sonny jim, had you read our profile like you claim to have done you would have seen that we dont take kindly to unsolicited whispers from single guys we dont know, so therefore you have just made yourself redundant from our perspective. You have just been blocked. I just wish that maybe Admin could set up a three strikes and youre out policy for whisperers. Set up a database that the mods can add a name to everytime they kick someone for whispering. Then once a person is kicked three times within a 14 day period, they are automatically banned from chatrooms for a further 30 days. This would show a strong opposition to pests in chat and would deter the pests from being so non conformative to the rules of chat.
i agree with all the answers each to there own, the point i was making was when someone asks you to pm them, then why dont they reply
If someone sends an e-mail on here to a lady then there is no obligation on them to reply as has been said the women on here get loads of e-mails and it would be difficult to reply to them all and in many cases they may not be interested also which is fine. However if as has happened to me in the past I have gotten an e-mail from someone and replied to it lets say for example with a link to my private photos then to reciprocate then it would be nice if they replied back even to say something along the lines of "sorry I am not interested or you're not my type etc" I know why most wouldn't reply even in this situation as they may get abusive e-mails back etc I can only speak for myself and say that I would rather get an e-mail back saying the person wasn't interested than none at all but I can understand why people don't also.