why is it that when people ask you to send a pm then dont have the decencey to reply ?, even a simple no thank you would be ok, come on guys if someone sends you a message just answer them one way or the other they will respect you for it.
some of the women on here get hundreds of messages a day... (not me btw)
so it might take all the time they have on here replying...
and..if u get messages from people that you've specifically requested not to message you
then why would yah...
my advice...
read the profiles...
Maddub....I agree with you to a certain point...IF i asked you to pm me then i would reply. IF you pm me with a request to see my pics, friend request--and never have spoken to me then emmm NO I wouldn't reply. As far as gingerfire said...i am not sure who gets hundreds of mails :eeek: cuz its not me either ginger....but she is correct in saying that if you read the profiles you will know if you are going to get a reply.. "no single males please" "i am picky so fit men between 30-35 please" "i don't meet couples" etc etc SHOULD give ye a hint :O :O :O :O
Mad...don't give up tho hon...this is the place for fun to be had ;) xxx
IMO I have sent the 'thanks but no thanks' reply and have been on the receiving end of a return email simliar to 'your loss' or 'cock-tease' and 'you don't know what you're missing' but thankfully they are a minority. But that's what I get for replying to an email - no thanks! I stopped replying and began replying to those I had an interest in, not wasting anyones time!
I'm not sure how you can brand someone who does not reply to your emails 'frustraited timewasters' and I for sure am not on this site to reply to every email I receive, time is precious.
I can understand your frustration to a point, but it's a case of 'to each their own' we all have preferences - some choose to reply some don't!
However if I request someone to send me a pm I would for sure reply!
Happy swinging :swingingchair:
agree with all the points,i always reply to a nice mail whether im intersted or not,if its a genuine mail,as they do take time to write i think its only manners to reply,tho they are those who have written disgusting mail which i ignore as im sure u would not greet a girl with some of the words thats have been wrote if u were to meet outside the site,first impressions are important with mail..keep it clean
i agree with all the answers each to there own, the point i was making was when someone asks
you to pm them, then why dont they reply
If someone sends an e-mail on here to a lady then there is no obligation on them to reply as has been said the women on here get loads of e-mails and it would be difficult to reply to them all and in many cases they may not be interested also which is fine.
However if as has happened to me in the past I have gotten an e-mail from someone and replied to it lets say for example with a link to my private photos then to reciprocate then it would be nice if they replied back even to say something along the lines of "sorry I am not interested or you're not my type etc" I know why most wouldn't reply even in this situation as they may get abusive e-mails back etc I can only speak for myself and say that I would rather get an e-mail back saying the person wasn't interested than none at all but I can understand why people don't also.