Master of Sex
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OK we are all adults on this site well at least i thought we were the meet and greet went great last week it was up to everyone to enjoy themselves. from what went on last night in the chat room people offended other people who gave up there night to entertain all who were there. everyone got what they wanted out of i was hurt to see friends who went out of there way and put the night on to be slagged it is not on theses people have been on site a very long time and know lots of people all over Ireland.
I feel there is a power struggle here and that some people feel it is ok to slag off others dubcplmg did a great. dubcplmg please dont mind the begrudge rs i know that my profile says 2008 but been on here since 2004 and have seen people come and go i have seen power struggles between people trying to get themselves known dubcplmg has been on here and is not involved in any sort of power games all on here known them from the chat rooms and also meeting at parties they are the nicest people you could come across. they have helped with parties in myyyyyyyyyyyy home which were fab parties there was no age limits as in been older or size everyone was treated the same that is what swing is about all treated the same ok i better finish as i am so annoyed that people are so childish and don't have the guts to say how they felt on the night but instead just come on site and slag in the chat rooms.
OK thanks all for reading Bonn's
maybe its me having the manners?? :dunno: maybe its me not thinking i am above anyone else?? :dunno: maybe i am not trying to make a name for myself?? :dunno: maybe i don't care about "the power"?? :dunno: ...........now before ye all jump in and 
i will be first to admit i have my preferences when it comes to men but thats exactly what they are- my preferences!!! But i wouldn't ever think of belittling someone who was not my type in public...they are people after all with feelings and there is someone out there that will think they are the bee's knees!!! There is NOT one person or group here that are perfect.........far from it....we are all like minded adults here for all different kinds of reasons but sadly of late it seems to have grown into a popularity contest 
who CARES if you have more people at a M&G?? :dunno: who cares if you want to be ontop of the throne?? :dunno: who cares if you are the power people( 
)?? :dunno: ............sad really...I KNOW who i am, why i am here and for that reason i don't have to prove myself to anyone so really don't give a shit what others think of me. I am however annoyed with myself that i get so damn worked up about the unjust shite that is going on around here as of late 
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.....There is a wide variety of people here so there is a meet, party or M&G for [b:eac1dff5b6]everyone [/b:eac1dff5b6]to enjoy not just the self-imposed elite....we all need to lighten up, get our heads outta our butts and let the fun, flirting & sex be the main objective again on s4i.
"Commitment, by its nature, frees us from ourselves and, while it stands us in opposition to some, it joins us with others similarly committed. Commitment moves us from the mirror trap of the self absorbed with the self to the freedom of a community of shared values."
THIS IS DIRECTED TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF US THAT WANT S4I TO RETURN TO NORMAL!!!
Worship
i never mentioned slagged however i do agree with you that everyone has a right to their opinion....and if dave & mags didn't enjoy it then fair enough...like they said they left early and didn't feel the need to say it to the organizers that night. The reason why i found it rude to say it in chat (keep in mind i wasn't there just getting this jist from both posts) is that if i attended a party you threw and someone asked me did I enjoy myself...i would have answered tactfully and diplomatically and say yes i had but left early etc.......you may say that is lying, so be it but i would have just been taking someones feelings into account. Like we ALL have said we all have different preferences and opinions.