Expectations
Who can have gone to a 1st meet with out a little trepidation, butterflies in the stomach & 1st night nerves, despite knowing that all will inevitably go well. Yet despite all the mails, texts and chat there are expectations, but on whom are the greatest expectations.
Personally I would think the greatest expectation is on the single male or the male of a couple, and being a male you have your own opinion of your prowess as a lover .
So some of the worries are; will I be funny enough, big enough, cum enough, stay hard long enough, or worse not get it up & then there is also the;
1-will I/we like both of them
2-have they better figures .
3-is he/she really Bi
4-what will be expected
5-what if I/we don’t like them
Of course the women will also have issues , possibly the single women more so than the women in couples.
Perhaps it is some of the above issues that has resulted in many of the cancelled & no-show meets. So is there such a thing as a meeting with no expectations and do any of the above really matter.
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Great Expectations!
We certainly have had expectations on our meets and all of the points you mentioned are very true for both male and female(besides staying hard for us ladys, it`s more of a matter of going dry lol)
We are all human and if we didnt worry about these things we feel it takes some of the excitment out of it
Sex God
I used to get really paranoid about meetings people, you know you been talking texting etc, but there is still something there on the first meet. I have to admit I am nervous on every first meet.
I think everybody gets nerves but thankfully they are the good type.
I think my biggest worry going to my first party was would i get stagefright with 9 others in the room and not be able to get hard.
Thanksfully I had 5 very sexy girls there to help me should that problem have arised(or not arised lol)
Thanks girls for making it a first to remember. You know who you are
