Well, I've not got a scooby doo who you are talking about, but I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments. Good on ye.
:Pffs never tell tales out off school :censored: simple rule if ye have nothing good to say about others say nothing at all ,well said above posters :taz:
have 2 agree with marie, this is not a kiss and tell site ... all initial meetings should be without expectations, that way if you all hit it off it will be a pleasant surprise and a bonus ... we are all adults not teenagers, if the guy or gal doesnt click with you, move on, life is too short to bear a grudge and the premise of this site is people meeting that might ..yes might want to have some nsa, no complications fun ... if that is not what your looking for then cancel your membership and join a singles club.
Well done IrishBaileys for raising this issue, this type of behaviour is common on most swing sites and indeed social network sites..
Sadly there will always be a group of people who mostly driven by as you say inadequacies or very often plain old fashioned jealousy, will seek to make other swingers lives unpleasant.
A lot of good people have been driven from sites over this issue, by the spitefulness of others, Marie hit the nail on the head, what goes on tour stays on tour, but that sadly is not the case with all swingers..
As with all rumour mongers, it is very easy to talk behind backs, harder to say it up close and personal, so to those who do indulge, stay under your rocks folks and let decent folk enjoy what we do best, meeting and having fun..
as it is the 10th month I though I would look at page 10 of the forum, some interesting stuff there but this i think ties in with some recent posts on - shouting in the street, messers, gossip , friends & neighbours etc... I am sure many have views on this and every now & then it it worth bring a forum back for discussion.
Jealousy coupled nastiness are devicesive traits of so many, and it's a sad state when it comes down to malicious rumour-mongering by a so called fellow swinger who has inadequacy issues. Sort your own issues out before dumping on others.
We all have levels of jealousy within us and it can cause issue amongst the most genuine of swingers; but not in a malicious way. Stick to the facts and the rest is just noise.
I loved T-Bags "I haven't got a scooby doo who you mean", excellent term :-)
(ever wondered why you never meet the same people twice? that in itself will answer the question).
in simple terms, this is an adult site, if you meet and don't hit it off with people then don't bad mouth about them, others can learn for themselves, thats what supposedly makes us all adults, so if you can't be adult then swing scene is one place or playground you don't belong on, only time we'd agree with saying anything is if people are physically dangerous to meet.
p.s.
the scene is not as large as some people think, and great thing about it is, friends talk to friends, and the rumours all go round and round and not only do you know whats been said but also know who instigated it 
(take this as a lesson in learning to keep your personal opinions to yourself). 
