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When in chat or sending mails, most (if not all) the people we enjoy chatting to havn't sent us wonderful brilliant Turner prize winning cock photographs. (but then again some enjoy them, and each to their own preferences;))
Pretty offputting when people use the chatroom and describe themselves as stunning/sex gods/studs/"the person you've been dreaming about!!" (no doubt you are, but do others have the same opinion?)(you may put yourself at the top of a tree, but remember if you slip, its a very long drop to the bottom :( )
Those that use the videochat for some fun, do so at their leisure, we doubt very much they need to be directed or told what to do next, (think you'll find most of those that direction is aimed at, will end up turning off their cam, so not only have you spoiled the fun for them, but you've also spoiled the fun for others who enjoyed the spectacle).
May add to this as time goes on, but just thought we'd share a couple of pointers that we've used ourselves, (as we're sure there are many other genuine people out there that have used).
remember the initial impression you make on someone, is the one you end up getting tainted with ;) well as you can see this site has taken off quite a bit recently but appears there are yet again a vast number of fakes and spoilers around to spoil the fun for those that are genuinely interested in trying out an 'alternative' lifestyle. just thought we'd give a little assistance to those that are serious about the scene.
the DO's
As most will know, posting some profile pictures or photos will definitely get a lot more interest and gives people a chance to see the kind of person/s they may end up meeting at some stage, always nice to drop in to the chatroom and say hi (or make your own arrangements to chat more privately, some things are better to chat about in private than in open forums of course).
There are a lot of genuine people out there have will have a lot of reservations about posting pics, but there really isn't any need to post full face pics, and in this modern age, web cams can be purchased for a small fee at most Tescos (they have Tescos all over the uk and ireland these days don't they? lol)
The DON'Ts
posting of pics which have been clearly downloaded from some internet porn site or adult site are pretty evident, (it takes quite a lot of time for professional/keen amateurs to set up their backdrops and lighting in order to get some of the pics that are being used as profile pics on these sites, and people overall are not idiots, and can clearly see through the fake pics when they have been used )
When in chat or sending mails, most (if not all) the people we enjoy chatting to havn't sent us wonderful brilliant Turner prize winning cock photographs. (but then again some enjoy them, and each to their own preferences;))
Pretty offputting when people use the chatroom and describe themselves as stunning/sex gods/studs/"the person you've been dreaming about!!" (no doubt you are, but do others have the same opinion?)(you may put yourself at the top of a tree, but remember if you slip, its a very long drop to the bottom :( )
Those that use the videochat for some fun, do so at their leisure, we doubt very much they need to be directed or told what to do next, (think you'll find most of those that direction is aimed at, will end up turning off their cam, so not only have you spoiled the fun for them, but you've also spoiled the fun for others who enjoyed the spectacle).
May add to this as time goes on, but just thought we'd share a couple of pointers that we've used ourselves, (as we're sure there are many other genuine people out there that have used).
remember the initial impression you make on someone, is the one you end up getting tainted with ;)
)
When in chat or sending mails, most (if not all) the people we enjoy chatting to havn't sent us wonderful brilliant Turner prize winning cock photographs. (but then again some enjoy them, and each to their own preferences;))
Pretty offputting when people use the chatroom and describe themselves as stunning/sex gods/studs/"the person you've been dreaming about!!" (no doubt you are, but do others have the same opinion?)(you may put yourself at the top of a tree, but remember if you slip, its a very long drop to the bottom :( )
Those that use the videochat for some fun, do so at their leisure, we doubt very much they need to be directed or told what to do next, (think you'll find most of those that direction is aimed at, will end up turning off their cam, so not only have you spoiled the fun for them, but you've also spoiled the fun for others who enjoyed the spectacle).
May add to this as time goes on, but just thought we'd share a couple of pointers that we've used ourselves, (as we're sure there are many other genuine people out there that have used).
remember the initial impression you make on someone, is the one you end up getting tainted with ;) 