Are we different because we enjoy sex, or enjoy it in a way that would contradict the societal norm.
If we were involved in a sport or in any other hobby no one would take any notice of the clubs, groups or associations we formed.
I suppose we should at least be thankful that technology lets us contact and relate with fellow "like minded people" .
But are we different form soccer fans or golfers? why is it unacceptable to enjoy sex and on occasion enjoy sex with someone other that your partner?
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Alan,
If we where not all different, would we be here?
The site in my view is populated with a wide range of people, people that are genuine swingers at what ever level that are not and look at the site as a quick fix. that just come on-board to have a laugh at the other members expense! that are determined to make the MOD's lives hell, without knowing the amount of work they put in, but are still expected too be the life and sole of the chatroom.
I for one have met some very good friends through here, some on a platonic basis, others well.......
Enough said, in answer to your question, yes we are all different, that said, what I may find different, others may not and vice versa.
Overall be it Cyber or not, the proof is in the meeting.
Padd's
Alan,
Addition too my above post.
I find it infuriating that Users of this site find that having numerous User ID's is funny!!!!
FFS, is it not obvious? there are common traits that roll through both the forum posts and indeed in the chatrooms, what a give away!!
I do understand that anonymity is certain cases is paramount, but some users flaunt it.
That's not why I am here, I am Padd's on site and Padd's only... ffs, One profile is enough for me!!
what is the norm ... is the a Marquis of Queensbury type rule book for sex ... is there a different norm for Ireland, England , Europe ... what are the differences ... and just who is the broker of "norm" ... if you enjoy it is it bad, perverted, wrong or alright as long as it is behind closed doors.
being different, pushing the boundries is how humans have evolved ... having repressed our sexual urges perhaps now is the time to explore ... despite religious teachings sex is for more than pro-creation ... with a partner it can be a mind enhancing religious like experience.
Jayus Alan your an awful man for worrying about the 'norm' and what others think of you
If you are having fun, exploring your sexuality and needs, with other consenting adults, without breaking the law, then it's the norm Alan..
From a woman's perspective, I would love to be with a full-time partner, who met my needs and I met his both sexualy and emotionaly, but until or if that does ever happen then I won't be lying on my back in a permanent missionary position ( though this can be fun as well ), I will push any boundries I feel like, or buttons for that
If you are having fun, exploring your sexuality and needs, with other consenting adults, without breaking the law, then it's the norm Alan..
From a woman's perspective, I would love to be with a full-time partner, who met my needs and I met his both sexualy and emotionaly, but until or if that does ever happen then I won't be lying on my back in a permanent missionary position ( though this can be fun as well ), I will push any boundries I feel like, or buttons for that Sex God
Yes, we are Different, Think of how boring life would be if we were all the same.
Are we different because we enjoy sex?. No not really, we are different though in how we express our love of sex,compared to the masses. I think thats a better way of putting it.
