As most swing sites are populated by a broad range of age differences, are you ageist when it comes to meeting people for sex?
Is experience more important? than a young fit body..
Personaly I enjoy people in and around my own age, but have had wonderful meets with younger people, probably because they are mature for their age.
In the past I have stated in profiles, no younger than 30, no older than 50, but I tend to judge people on their mails, and personality..
If a connection feels good then I go with it.
While the old saying each to their own, is of course important, when I see some of the comments around older members I get annoyed, a lot of young swingers (imo) are very much caught up in the body image, thinking this ensures good sexual experience.
Yet from experience I find, older means less inhibitated and more pleasurable in the long run.
Age is only a number ...
People are more complex than being just a number and i'm far more interested in whats going on inside their head than how old they are.
I hopes to be shagging when i'm in me 90's or why would you want to live that old if your just going to be sitting around getting older?
Sean xx
I'm with the girls here!
Age is not just a number - and Yes - I hope I am still capable of shagging in my 90s - but before then - I want to have something in common with my partners
So anyone whose idea of fun is playstations or Golf is going to be so totally uninteresting to me that I'd rather DIY with my toys than have toyboys or grandads near me.
Now that I'm on the wrong side of 40 according to some I should be taking up knitting by the fireside every chance !!!
Age is probably more important in a long term relationship. For swinging i don't think its that big a deal if the people involved hit it off.
On the subject of younger guys they are not all immature and some are a good laugh. Its also good for the ego being able to pull a younger guy. Sad but true. However I generally like guys 10 years either side of my age as they are just easier to get along with. They also usually don't need a and directions to find the sweet spots.
Having said that my fella is 8 years younger than me but at this stage were together so long it doesn't make any difference.
If people are not interested in people alot older or younger than them I think its fair enough to say it, otherwise your wasting peoples time. You might miss out on some great people with this approach but in the end its whatever floats your boat.
Well said Yummy, Horses for course at the end of the day But I do think a lot are missing out by having a pre concieved opinion of people because of theyre age.
Personally Ive had some amazing encounters with women 10-15 years oldr than me and I am deffinitely an advocate of the younger male older female thing.(not that I am dissing the ladies me own age..hell no!!!!)
I think the persons maturity is the main thing and this can be either way irrespective of age.