I have been in a relationship for a long time, the fun and all the sex, has gone out of it and I am wondering what I have been missing for the past few years. I love sex and love to make a partner feel good. I go to the gym, I'm slim but I'm no muscle freak. Women have always seemed to like me but I'm not up for hanging in the bars too much. I'm looking for someone fun, reasonably fit and intelligent. I have not done this before but I am no amateur. I think that's it for now.