First things first, I am married and while my wife knows I am attracted to Bi and Gay men,she does not approve. That's that out of the way.

I am Bi not Bi curious. I am not here to waste anyone's time, least of all my own. I am new to the swinging scene, I am not here looking for a quick meets or cheap thrill...I have more respect for myself than that.

My wish is to meet a Couple or single guy who enjoys the services and devoted attention of a sensible, educated, intelligent (at least I think I am!),well grounded man who is both compilable and compliant but not a doormat. I am not at all sexually assertive. I do not claim to be experienced, however I have enjoyed some intimate times and very much seek more.

I realise Rome was not built in a day, so I guess before any meeting there would need to be an exchange of messages to see if there is the elusive "connection"....perhaps even an exchange of mobile No's eventually.

Al I can say in conclusion is I am serious about this as it has been on my mind for a long time. I will never lie or mislead you, what's the point!

John