I have discovered since I got seperated that I am very hedonistic and enjoy the company of like minded people. Also discovered I only really enjoy myself with people singing off the same hymn sheet.

I work out a lot in the gym doing weights and am in very good shape. Interesting exercise when looking around a bar, the guys in there 40's in really good shape are usually separated as obesity usually leads to celibacy.

I have a number of bi female friends (with privilege's) who are open to swinging.