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Having been a member on this site since the beginning I see people come and go, some people add to the site and others decide to stay quietly in the background to chat and play…
I have seen many changes and one I have seen these last few months is the change in the chat room. I will be honest and say I think not only for newbies, but also for some older members it isn't a very friendly place at times, and I don't think this is a good thing for the site.
Some have placed themselves on a pedestal based on their popularity and activities and are at times disdainful of others or patronising. We now have a high percentage of member who won't chat in the main room because of this. There has been a few threads on the boards about it but members get shot down for even suggesting it happens
Swinging isn't about how hot you are or how good looking you think you are, it's a lifestyle that all walks of life participate in and being judgemental, disdainful or patronising is the undoing of many in the long run. Reminds me of that saying, the higher you climb the harder you fall.
I will just say one last thing.
Some people need to take a good hard look at how they behave on site.
Most people don't come here to join a knitting group or want to be in one, they're here for adventure, so don't ruin the chat room by only sticking to a club, be a bit more open and accept we are all different.
You never know what your missing by being exclusive,hidden treasures are often the most valuable

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And the 'reddner' face I've been looking for that when I don't whisper - when I think I am

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Whoo hoo that's great news ..... It's the little things in life lol