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sunsetgirl
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 41
0 km · Kilkenny
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:lol:Ok well ive been thinking bout this for a few days and now I think its time to air my views.
I would consider myself a chatroom regular, Im in there a lot and I suppose some mite say im very vocal. When I see the posts about the cliques I always think ah there no cliques, Ive never noticed them...so that got me thinking is that because im part of one?? I have times in my life experienced what its like to be an outsider and not fit it and I would expect that a swinging website is not the place anyone like minded would feel like that. It took me a view months to find the chatrooms and the first few times I logged in I logged straight back out again I found it very intimadating and to this day I can still remember the first person who I chatted with and made me feel so welcome.
I came on this site with once single view in mind and to my pleasent surprise I found more then that. I found people I now consider to be friends and I have had such a laugh with them. I love the chatroom most days, coming in having a bit of banter with the people im friendly with and the people I plan on gettin friendly with.
I see a lot are givin out about the chat that goes on post party......why is this so annoying to you?
RE: being friendly to newbies. I dont think anyone could say Im not friendly to ppl but I will admit when I go into chat I know the people who will chat to me and have a laugh with and its just easier...I have wasted a lot of time trying to drag conversation out of people. Its not easy, after the hi how are u, theres not much more to go on, and it gets to the stage where u feel your bothering them. And of course when you are asked to whisper and say no your ignored by them or the chat can become nasty!! I will chat to anyone as long its friendly banter but if I dont feel comfortable with the way a conversation is goin, its one word answers time
As I am a single female I know how daunting it is and if a see a new single female name in room always try to caht to them...some dont want to chat to girls for whatever reason and again thats fine!
I have come to the reaslisation that some folks dont want to chat and that is fine! They have a purpose goin in there and are not interested in anything else.
RE: The whispering thing...I love the new block its great for gettin rid of pests! But its so easy to just say oh block em and move on but ya no when you have seen something said ya cant unsee it and I am not a robot I do have feelings and it does get to me.
Also maybe teh whisperer is actually jus shy so blocking them mite stop you gettin to know someone decent, I try and drag them to main but again a lot dont want to chat in main.
I have been known to make jokes in main with other single females about things that are said but humor can be a self defence mechanism and also a warning to others we dont like it dont do it.
Im not going to say much about the lies being spread....it all comes out in the end and the scene is not huge and you should be very carefull who you bitch too cause you never no who there friendly with
Anyway I think we could all remember that behind the random username is a person with feelings and yes we are grown adults but that doesnt mean you can say whatever you want to ppl and not expect offence to be taken.
And if anyone new to the site sees this thread and thinks its a horrible place then you have teh wrong impression. There are lovely sexy freindly horny people who make up for the bad eggs and worth getting to know!
ha I recently did a little experment and answered every mail I got...I wont be doing it again. It opened up a line of communication I did not want and apparantly a polite no thank you is not a good enough answer for some ppl. So while some mite think not answering mails is rude I dont actually care.
tom4 what are u on about? so what if a girl doesnt want to be contacted by a male?? either there not meeting them or they prefer to pick there own??
and as for the old age thing. It is no ones business what age anyone wants to meet! If I choose to only meet short bald men 58-62 medium build with 5inch penis then hey its my choice and should b respected (thats only an example by the way please dont contact me if u follow that critera!) And if I choose to meet someone outside the critera then again its my business
I find the girls who get called prima donnas are really only the ones who dont suffer fools gladly or take any bullshit.
